Kay's Ponderings

Give Your Best

2012-01-28T16:22:00.000-06:00

"Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of Truth." 2 Timothy 2:15 (NIV)

As we near the end of January in this new year, I am still thinking about the year that lies ahead. I am pondering my goals, my challenges, my desires and most of all, what are God's goals and what are His desires for my life?

My challenge, my goal for this year is to do my best. That's what God is asking of me. I don't have to do what someone else does and I don't even have to be as good as they are at what they do. (Neither do you.) I am convinced that God wants me (and you) to do the very best we can with what He has blessed us with.

God gifts us uniquely. Let's do the best we can with the gifts, talents, and abilities God has given us. (Quit comparing ourselves with others!) I truly want to be "a workman that does not need to be ashamed" and I want to "correctly handle the word of Truth."

Will God say to us, "Well done, good and faithful servant?" (Matthew 25:21) If we give Him our best, we can expect to hear those precious, comforting and rewarding words.

Our challenge: Give Him our very best!

Go In The Right Direction

2011-12-24T11:42:00.000-06:00

Mary was given the awesome news that Jesus Christ was to be born. This news, as amazing as it was, was also troubling to Mary. She was to be THE virgin through whom Jesus was to be born. Yet, in the midst of this startling proclamation that would turn her world upside down, she said. "I am the Lord's servant. May it be to me as You have said." (Luke 1:38)

Mary hurried to visit her cousin Elizabeth who was also having a miracle child (John the Baptist - born in their old age). When John the Baptist leaped in Elizabeth's womb as Mary greeted them, Mary broke forth in a song of praise to God.

Mary is the example I want to follow. I want to say, no matter what, "I am Your servant, Lord." I want to break forth in songs of praise even in the midst of adversity. I'm not there yet. I will never be completely there. Maybe all I can hope for is to go in the right direction.

Prayer: Lord, help me go in the right direction - toward total obedience and abandonment to You. Surrender.

This Christmas - Focus, Remember, Worship

2011-12-13T10:24:00.000-06:00

"Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord." (Luke 2:11)

FOCUS on JESUS - the Reason for the Season. Christmas is the time set aside to celebrate Jesus' birthday. He is the Reason we celebrate Christmas, so let us FOCUS on Him and not on our to do list.

REMEMBER that night over 2,000 years ago - remember how it changed the world forever. Scripture tells us over and over to REMEMBER - remember what God has done in our lives in the past. It helps us see the faithfulness of God. Remembering Jesus' birth is the pinnacle of God's faithfulness.

WORSHIP the Lord Jesus Christ - our Savior. When we focus on Jesus and remember His birth and His faithfulness in our lives, how can we do anything but worship Him? He is worthy of worship.

This Christmas let's focus on Jesus, the real Reason for the Season, Let's remember His birthday over 2,000 years ago and most of all, let us worship Him who is worthy of all worship and praise. "You are worthy, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power for you created all things and by your will they were created and have their being." (Revelation 4:11)

Blessings and Thanksgiving

2011-11-22T16:03:00.000-06:00

Psalm 95:2 - "Let us come before Him with thanksgiving and extol Him with music and song." (NIV)

This Thanksgiving season may we come before Him with grateful hearts, praising Him and thanking Him for our many blessings.

What a great time to begin a gratitude/blessing list if you have not already. As you go through your day, begin writing down your blessings which may range from Jesus and salvation to birds in your feeder. Count your many blessings and you will be blessed. Your focus will be on Him and not on self. You will "extol Him" when you come into His presence with thanksgiving for your blessings.

May we come to the point that Habakkuk wrote about in Habakkuk 3:17-18. "Though the fig tree does not bud and there are no grapes on the vines, thought the olive crop fails . . . . . . . yet, I will rejoice in the LORD, I will be joyful in God my Savior."

Lord, give us grateful hearts. May we see our many blessings and come before you with thanksgiving.

I am Weak, but He is Strong

2011-11-13T18:10:00.000-06:00

I have been pondering something I read recently in my time with the Lord. In the devotional book Jesus Calling, it states that He chose me less for my strength than He did my weakness because my weakness amplifies my need for Him. How very true! I just had not thought very much about God actually choosing me more for my weakness than my strength - actually, I really do know I have no strength apart from Him.

1 Corinthians 1:27 says, "God chose the weak things of the world."." (my emphasis) In 2 Corinthians 12, Paul talks about asking God to remove his "thorn in the flesh," but God told him, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." (verse 9)

Paul says in 2 Corinthians 12:10, "That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong."

I sometimes feel so weak, so powerless. How good it is to be reminded that God chose the weak things (that's me and maybe that's you). When I am weak, my need for Him is so evident. I want to say with Paul, "I delight in weaknessess. For when I am weak, then I am strong."

How can that be? My weaknesses cause me to turn to the Almighty, the All-Powerful for my strength. God can use me when I recognize my weakness and rely on His Strength. I truly am nothing, no-thing without Him. But, I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.

When Life Hurts

2011-10-21T13:41:00.000-05:00

What are we to do when life hurts? Hebrews 12:2 says, "Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, scorning its shame,and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God."

What does it mean to "fix our eyes on Jesus?" It means we focus on Him, on who He is, on His All-Sufficiency instead of focusing on our hurts. We can't do both at the same time. Whatever we are facing today, He is big enough to get us through. He is our Comforter and Healer and He has promised He will never leave us or forsake us. (Deuteronomy 31:8)

He is our constant companion. Draw close to Him. He is there. His Presence is always with us. "Be still and know that I am God." (Psalm 46:10)

Will life stop hurting? No. But, He takes the sting out of our hurts. His Presence comforts and consoles us and gives us hope.

Priorities

2011-10-03T09:51:00.000-05:00

Be careful/cautious in setting priorities. While there are a lot of good things in life, if anything besides Jesus is at the top of our list of priorities, there will be problems. Everything else disappoints.

Our spouses, families, friends, church, Christian organizations, etc. will all disappoint us at times.
When we get all wrapped up, even in a good thing, when a problem develops, and it will, we are in for hurt and disappointment.

An example: My life for many years has revolved around my family and my church - not much else. When difficulties come in either area, it can rock my world. My family disappoints me at times - just as I disappoint them. My church disappoints me at times - just as I disappoint my church. If I put either of these areas above the Lord, or if I expect too much from them, I am in for some major disappointments.

Prioritize - Jesus first, family next and then my church. Every other good thing must follow these priorities. Keep your eyes on Jesus!

"Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God."
Hebrews 12:2 (NIV)

The List - Having a Grateful Heart

2011-09-19T09:19:00.000-05:00

"Always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ." Ephesians 5:20 (my emphisis)

I began The List the other morning - a list of things for which I am thankful. I want - I need to develop a more grateful heart so I am making The List. It will be somewhat random in nature though I am putting Jesus, my Savior at the top of The List.

What prompted The List? I have been perusing One Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp and have been thoroughly convicted of my failure to recognize how truly blessed I am. I know that fact, but as I actually name my blessings (as Ann has emphasized),it gives me greater awareness of how God has blessed me. It also shines a light on my lack of thankfulness.

That very morning on which I began The List, God sent a most refreshing rain after a long dry spell. Refreshing rain made The List. My screened porch, where I have my time alone with God during the spring, summer and fall, also made The List. Cooler temperatures, gentle breezes, a hot cup of coffee, butterflies, hummingbirds, family and friends all made The List.

My prayer is that God will give me a grateful heart through this exercise so He will shine through me. I desire to be thankful even for the small things in life such as my first cup of coffee in the morning. I don't want the tough things in life - divorce, illness and the like - to consume me and take away my thankfulness or my joy.

I want to give God the tough things in life and turn my focus to Him and His abundant blessings - His gifts. "Give me a grateful heart, Lord."

Oaks of Righteousness

2011-09-08T15:39:00.001-05:00

There are those who gain our attention and respect because of how they grieve over their losses. They are such a testimony to God's faithfulness and provision.

Isaiah was sent to preach good news to the poor, bind up the brokenhearted . . . . . ., provide for those who grieve in Zion . . . . .(Isaiah 61:1-3) Isaiah says of those who grieve in Zion- "They shall be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the LORD for the display of His splendor." (Isaiah 61:3c) Those who grieve are very special to the Lord. He wants to give them a crown of beauty, the oil of gladness, a garment of praise and they will be called "oaks of righteousness."

The Lord plants these "oaks of righteousness" and there is a purpose - "for the display of His splendor." When we experience deep hurts and losses, we have a God-given opportunity to display the splendor of the Lord. Will we be called "oaks of righteousness?" Will we display His splendor?
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Feeling a Little Insignificant?

2011-08-27T11:17:00.001-05:00

Do you ever feel unimportant or insignificant? Maybe a glimpse into David's life will help you. David was a shepherd boy - he tended sheep. Even his family thought he was unimportant, but God had other plans. When Samuel came to anoint God's chosen king to replace Saul, he looked at all of Jesse's sons but found that God had not chosen any of them. He asked Jesse (David's father), "Are these all the sons you have?" Jesse answered him, "There is still the youngest, but he is tending sheep." (1 Samuel 16:11) His family did not feel he was worthy to pass in front of Samuel to be considered as the next king, but God had other plans.

When David was brought to Samuel, God spoke to Samuel and said, "Rise and anoint him, he is the one." (1 Samuel 16:12) After Samuel anointed David, the Spirit of the LORD came upon him in power. David was a handsome young man with a fine appearance and yet, his family considered him insignificant, but God had other plans.

Maybe you are talented, nice-looking, good worker, etc. as David was and yet you feel insignificant. God does not see you as man does. When Samuel first arrived in Bethlehem, he thought he had found the new king immediately when he saw Eliab. God said, "Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart." (1 Samuel 16:7)

God says we are all significant in His eyes (whether we are considered talented, nice looking, etc.). There are no unimportant people in His kingdom. Be encouraged today as you think about how really significant you are in God's eyes. God has other plans for you. Be ready!

Rely On God - Not Ourselves

2011-08-09T16:15:00.000-05:00

It is a fact of life - we will have troubles. "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."(John 16:33)

Do you ever wonder why you (your family/friends, etc.) face so many trials and difficulties? Sometimes the answer is quite simple. Hardships often happen so we will stop relying on ourselves and rely on God.

In writing to the church at Corinth, Paul informed them of some of the hardships he had experienced. He stated that they were far beyond his ability to endure and thought he would lose his life. "Indeed, in our hearts we felt the sentence of death. But this happened that we might not rely on ourselves but on God, who raises the dead." (2 Corinthians 1:9)

When Brooks Marr ( a lady in her 80's in our church) shared her testimony recently, she shared that through the many trials she had experienced in life, she had learned to stop asking God why and ask Him what instead - what He is trying to teach me through this trial/trouble.

When difficulties come, we need to learn to ask God what He wants to teach us - what does He want us to learn from this difficulty - or what is it He wants me to get rid of in my life.

Let's learn to ask God what and not why and learn to rely on God and not ourselves.

God is Amazing (Part 2)

2011-07-27T09:36:00.000-05:00

I find I don't want to write part 2 of this devotional. God is still amazing, but I am just so human! Most of us do not like to see ourselves in that light, but alas, it is so true where I am concerned.

After experiencing a week of victory given to me by the Lord, I went into a valley. It all started with an almost sleepless night followed by a second and a third restless night. Why wasn't I sleeping well? My mind would not turn off. Along with a lot of changes and adjustments in my life, I let a very small, insignificant thing throw me. Someone did not do what they had agreed to do and I finally realized why it caused me so much angst. It was a reflection on my leadership, or should I say, my lack of leadership.

This valley came for several reasons, I am sure. One, I focused on the situation and on the bad light cast on me rather than on God and His ability to make something good out of a less than good situation. Add to that the lack of rest and a "full plate" (almost everybody has a "full plate" these days) and you have a scenario for depression and discouragement.

Satan attacks us at our point of vulnerability. I do not function well when I do not get my rest, thus the devil's attack. Keep in mind that during the mountaintop and the valley I was spending time with the Lord every morning. It wasn't like I had neglected the Lord, but Satan's attack came in spite of this fact.

When Elijah was depressed and wanted to die, he had just experienced the most wonderful victory on Mount Carmel against Baal. The first thing he did after praying and asking God to take his life was to lie down and sleep. An angel awakened him to eat and he fell asleep again. This same scenario was repeated again. Once Elijah was rested, the Scriptures say, "And the word of the LORD came to him. . . ." (1 Kings 19:9b)

I, like Elijah needed rest. Once the Lord gave me rest, I began to feel like a new person. 1 Peter 4:11b says, "If anyone serves, he should do it with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ." For this time in my life, God has called me to a lot of areas of service. He continues to provide what I need and assures me He will continue to provide. I just have to rely on Him and His strength and not get sidetracked in trying to do things in my own small strength. "I can do everything through Him who gives me strength." (Philippians 4:13)

Ah, rest, it changes my perspective! After much prayer, I am convinced that God will provide everything I need to go through this busy time in my life. He is All-Sufficient and He always equips us for what He calls us to do. God truly is amazing!!

God is Amazing (Part 1)

2011-07-25T09:10:00.000-05:00

July 9, 2011

God is sufficient even in the wilderness times of our lives. Is your life in a turmoil right now? God is sufficient! To me, He is proving Himself to be the All-Sufficient God and yes He is amazing. There have been a lot of changes in our family lately - from a child going through a divorce and moving home for a time to two teenage grandsons living with us every other week. Big changes! But, again God is sufficient.

Add to all this, the places of service to which God has called me and it makes for a rather full plate. Some weeks I ask God how am I going to accomplish all that is before me and He assures me it is going to be okay. He truly amazes me!

This week was especially busy as I was completing the next study for Sunday School. How could I get it finished with everything else going on? On Friday, those booklets/worksheets were compiled and ready to distribute on Sunday. I looked back at the week and thought - "Thank you God!" He had amazed me at the accomplishments of the week. It is His strength, not mine. He truly is my Provider. I pray He is yours as you experience difficult or wilderness times.

Psalm 57:1 "Have mercy on me O God, have mercy on me, for in You my soul takes refuge. I will take refuge in the shadow of your wings until the disaster (calamity, difficulty) has passed."

Note: There will be a part 2 to this story - as I went from mountaintop to valley. Through it all, God still amazes me.

A "Still" Person - I'm Not

2011-07-06T14:28:00.000-05:00

Once again I find myself focusing on Psalm 46:10 - "Be still and know that I am God." This verse has been on my mind and my heart lately and there it was again, in one of my devotional readings. More and more I am realizing the importance of being still in God's Presence. How will I ever hear Him and truly know Him if I am not still?

Confession: I am not a "still" person. But, through discipline and the power of the Holy Spirit (mostly the power of the Holy Spirit), I have learned to be fairly still early in the morning. Let's face it, there aren't many distractions while it is still dark, so I can more easily focus on Him. Trust me, there is room for improvement even though I have been having an early Quiet Time for many years.

Why do most of us have trouble being still? Well, we have soooooo much to do! (We say!) I was thinking about Jesus and His tasks when He was here on earth. There has never been a bigger to-do list, nor a more important one. Yet, I am reminded that He was never in a hurry. He always took time to listen to others and meet their needs.

Let's just say that I am convicted about my busyness, my hurriedness versus Jesus' calmness and patience, while getting THE JOB done.

My Prayer: Lord, help me be still in Your Presence. Help me let you direct my day. Guide me to accomplish what is truly important. Teach me Your Way.

Give Your Mind a Break

2011-06-10T13:35:00.000-05:00

"Give your mind a break from planning and trying to anticipate what will happen." This jumped off the pages of Jesus Calling early this morning in my Quiet Time. I don't know about you, but I needed permission to give my mind a break from planning! There is always something in my life that needs planning - my daily, weekly, etc. schedule, Sunday School, Women's Ministry and on and on. Sometimes that planning and the anticipation of what might occur interferes with my sleep.

By "nature" I am a planner. That's not necessarily a bad trait, but one can go overboard with a good thing. The key, of course, is to let the Holy Spirit be in control of my day, my week, my future - let Him be in on the planning. Let Him be my Guide.

Psalm 62:5 says, "Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from Him." To give my mind a break (a rest), I must be ever aware of the Lord's constant Presence with me. This becomes a reality through prayer - constant prayer. Pray, pray, pray. Listen, listen, listen. Obey, obey, obey. Rest in Him.

The Chief Liar

2011-05-25T08:52:00.000-05:00

The devil is a liar. Jesus said, "When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies." Jesus also said, "He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth for there is no truth in him." (John 8:44)

How do we counteract the devil's lies? Know the TRUTH. Study God's Word. Know the Scripture and yes, memorize the Word. When the devil tempted Jesus in the wilderness, He answered him with Scripture. We can do the same, but we have to know the Word.

We must know the Truth to repudiate the devil's lies. If we don't know God's Word, how will we recognize his lies?

When we saturate our minds and thoughts with God's Word, we will recognize the devil's lies. "Then you will know the truth and the truth will set you free." (John 8:32)

Our Fears - God's Sovereignty

2011-04-27T08:48:00.000-05:00

Deuteronomy 31:8 - "The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged."

"Do not be afraid" - God states these words over and over again in his Word. I once thought of myself as something other than a fearful person. Compared to many people, I am not, but when I am completely honest with myself and with God, I have to admit I do have fear in my life.

Okay, confession time! I am dreadfully afraid of snakes. I also experience claustrophobia at times but this is improving. Another fear I deal with is the fear of heights. In high places, I can become somewhat disoriented, dizzy and sometimes overwhelmed. I have actually experienced a panic attack while driving on a very high, crooked road from Durango, Colorado to Silverton.

God spoke to me very clearly one morning recently as I read the devotional and Scripture from Jesus Calling. When God says, "Do not be afraid," that is exactly what He means. God is Omnipresent and He is Sovereign. He has shown me that He is in control of even my greatest fears. He knows where the snakes are hiding (the sneaky things!) and He is even in control of snakes. Because He is Sovereign and in control, I need not fear. He made the beautiful, tall mountains and He is there when we are driving through the high and narrow roads that overlook the valleys below, so I should not fear. He is there when I find myself in a closed-in space like an elevator or MRI.

He WILL deliver me from my fears. It is a matter of trust. When I truly believe that He is Sovereign, my fears will fade away.

Lord, deliver me from all my fears. You are there (Omnipresent). You are in control (Sovereign). Help me trust You.

Be Still Before the Lord

2011-04-14T19:07:00.000-05:00

Such a fast paced world we live in! Do we ever really get still? God's Word tells us, commands us, to be still.

Zechariah 2:13 - "Be still before the Lord, all mankind."

Psalm 46:10 - "Be still and know that I am God."

How will we ever really know God if we do not get still before Him? I don't believe we will. To grow and mature in our Christian lives, we must know who He is. The more we know about His character, His power, His strength, His love, His mercy and His grace, the more we want to know.

The more we learn about the awesomeness of God, the smaller we seem - the more insignificant we become. It really is all about who He is - it's not about me!

"Be still and know that I am God." Learn to be still in His presence. Practice being still before Him - it will not just happen. We have to make the effort, make the choice, to be quiet and still before Him. Learn to listen to Him through His Word and you will begin to know who God really is.

"You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. I will be found by you declares the LORD." (Jeremiah 29:13-14a)

Isn't God Good?!!

2011-04-05T13:56:00.001-05:00

Have you ever noticed when someone dies or we lose something, a baby is often born or something new comes into our lives? Isn't God good?!!

God takes our hurts and our losses and gives us something new and alive. He is All-sufficient and He is always good. He knows our hurts and our griefs and He cares. "Taste and see that the LORD is good; blessed is the man who takes refuge in Him." (Psalm 34:8) "The LORD is good to all; He has compassion on all He has made." (Psalm 145:9)

When a marriage ends, it is a loss and our family is experiencing this right now. True to God's goodness, our only granddaughter, Kaylee, got engaged Sunday night to Colton - her best friend. We are all so excited and I could not help but see God's hand in the timing. In the third chapter of Ecclesiastes, Solomon says, "There is a time for everything and a season for every activity under heaven . . . . . . . a time to mourn and a time to dance." I think it is time to dance! Isn't God good?!!

Colton and Kaylee

Daniel - Committed to Worship

2011-03-22T17:08:00.004-05:00

Daniel is one of my favorite characters in God's Word and his commitments influence me to keep him at the top of my list of the most admired men in the Bible. We know he was committed to taking care of his physical body because of his refusal to eat the king's delicacies - rich as they were. Even more impressive is his commitment to worship the One True God at all cost.

In Daniel 6:3 it states that "Daniel so distinguished himself . . . . by his exceptional qualities that the king planned to set him over the whole kingdom." But, as men/women will do, his co-workers became jealous and determined to bring him down. However, this task was going to be no small job. "They could find no corruption in him, because he was trustworthy and neither corrupt nor negligent." (Daniel 6:4b) These men determined that they would have to devise a plan that had something to do with the law of his God if they wanted to bring him down.

These co-workers flattered the king and urged him to sign into law a decree that stated if anyone prayed to someone other than the king for 30 days, they would be placed in the lion's den. How did Daniel respond to the decree? Daniel 6:10b states, "Three times a day he got down on his knees and prayed, giving thanks to his God, just as he had done before."

Daniel was committed to worship even if it meant facing a lion's den. How important is worship to us? Are we willing to go to the "lion's den" if we are caught worshiping God? God is the One True God - the same God Daniel worshiped - the only God who is worthy of our worship and praise. How committed are we to caring for our physical bodies and how committed are we to worshiping God no matter the cost?

Pleasant Places

2011-03-05T10:14:00.000-06:00

I think Psalm 16:6 will have to become one of my memory verses this year because it keeps coming to mind. "The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; surely I have a delightful inheritance."

Am I saying that everything is going beautifully in my life right now? Absolutely not! But, I have an overwhelming feeling that God has blessed me far more than I deserve. Everything in my life right now is not pleasant, but overall, my life is still in pleasant places. It is because of God's abiding presence and His love. No matter what happens, He is with me and has given me what I need to face all circumstances. "His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness. . . . ." (2 Peter 1:3) Does that mean I don't get sad, grieve and cry? Of course not!

When the news came that our son and his wife will be getting a divorce after 18 years of marriage and two teenage sons, it was and is devastating. It hurts. It's not pleasant. The truth that God hates divorce came immediately to mind. But He is All-Sufficient and will see us all through the difficulties that lie ahead.

My Prayer - well it's just too personal so I will share the end of my prayer: "Lord, whatever you want to teach me, help me get it. Quick! Lord."

Who Am I?

2011-02-19T10:52:00.000-06:00

David had a desire in his heart to build a house for the LORD so His dwelling place would not be in a tent. But God had other plans. Solomon, David's son would be the one to build a house for God. What a thrill when God blesses our children with wonderful opportunities to serve Him!

God also, at this time, gave David a promise through the prophet Nathan. "Your house and your kingdom will endure forever before me; your throne will be established forever." (2 Samuel 7:16)

David was so overcome with gratefulness and awe of what God was doing in his life that he "went in and sat before the LORD." David asked God "Who am I, O Sovereign LORD . . . .that You have brought me this far?" (2 Samuel 7:18)

I am so identifying with David these days! I am overwhelmed as I focus on the many blessings God has poured out on me and my family. I am asking God, "Who am I that you have brought me this far?" God has given Eddie and me 50 years of marriage - a true milestone that only comes through God's faithfulness. He has given us a beautiful family. While it is not perfect (how could it me, I am a part of it?!), I wouldn't trade it for any other.

May I never quit pondering the question, "Who am I that You have brought me this far?" It's really not about who I am, it's about who He is. It truly is all about Him, what He has done, His faithfulness, His blessings, His promises and His Sovereignty.

In humility, I ask Him, "Who am I that YOU have brought me this far?" I have not deserved it but how grateful and how blessed I am. Thank You, Lord!

"The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; surely I have a delightful inheritance." (Psalm 16:6)

Anyone Perfect?

2011-02-08T16:59:00.000-06:00

Striving toward perfection - not a bad thing. Scripture says, "Be perfect, therefore as your heavenly Father is perfect." (Matthew 5:48) [Perfect here means mature or holy.] Does this mean we are never to make a mistake? Of course not!

No one who has or ever will walk on this earth is perfect, except Jesus Christ. Ephesians 5:1-2 - "Be imitators of God therefore as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us . . . . . ." Yes, we are to strive toward perfection - strive toward being Christlike.

However, many of us deal with the negative side of perfection. I certainly have! It's not pretty. It is a control issue and is not something of which to be proud. Since perfection is unattainable, what happens when a perfectionist wants a perfect house, the perfect children, the perfect family, the perfect friends, or the perfect church? Lots of disappointments are in store for the perfectonist unless he or she accepts the fact that nothing is perfect and no one is perfect.

I confess, I would love to keep a "perfect" house or should I say I use to have that desire. Right now the word dust has been on my to-do list since day before yesterday. Maybe it will happen today, but if not, I have learned to live with a less than perfect house. Why? Because it is unattainable. Dirt happens. Messes happen - they are a part of life.

The "perfecton" that I desire today more than anything else is to become more like Jesus - be an imitator of Him. That has eternal value.

Maybe It's Not Too Late

2011-02-01T14:32:00.000-06:00

Do you still dream about what you want to do or become? When you were younger, did you dream about future goals and accomplishments? Have they failed to materialize? Maybe it's not too late.

God knows our dreams, our desires, our very thoughts. Did He give you those dreams? If He did, He has given you what you need to accomplish them. Maybe you put your dreams on hold to raise your family or care for aging parents. God honors those important choices. Don't give up on fulfilling your dreams. Maybe it's not too late.

The psalmist said, "Lord, my every desire is known to You." (Psalm 38:9, HCSB) God knows what we desire, so we may as well voice those desires to Him.

A devotional about dreams and goals in Journey magazine stated, "For many of us, those dreams are put on hold to bring us fresh purpose in our later years." How encouraging for those of us who are growing older - and isn't everyone?!

Don't give up on your dreams. Maybe it's not too late! Maybe God has saved your dream to give you a new challenge at this time in your life. If He gives us a dream, a goal, or desire, He will give us what we need to fulfill it. Just trust Him to supply everything you need. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart . . . ." (Proverbs 3:5a, NIV)

Stay Fresh and Green

2011-01-16T13:21:00.000-06:00

With another birthday just behind me, I am thinking about new responsibilities I have taken on. Questions come to mind - "Will I be able to lead as I need to? Will I have the energy and stamina? Am I trying to do too much?" (A problem I often have!)

I am reading through the Psalms and Psalm 92 was a recent reading. Psalm 92:12-15 holds some significant words for me. The psalmist talks about how "The righteous will flourish." Well, I am not righteous in and of myself, but because Christ lives in me and I serve Him, I am considered one of the righteous. In verse 14 the psalmist says, "They (the righteous) will still bear fruit in old age; they will stay fresh and green, proclaiming, 'The LORD is upright; He is my Rock' . . . . . ."

God is never through with us if He leaves us here on earth. He has work for us to do. I pray I will do His work and while I do His work, will bear much fruit and stay fresh and green like the palm tree and cedar tree mentioned by the psalmist.

So You Want to be Wise

2011-01-03T11:08:00.000-06:00

So you want to be wise - look to the Magi - theWise Men's example. The earthly king Herod asked the Wise Men to find the Christ Child, return to him and let him know where He was so he could worship Him. Herod never planned to worship the Christ Child - he planned to kill Him (Matthew 2:16). The Wise Men listened to the Heavenly King rather than the earthly one. The Wise Men were just that - wise.

God's Word is the ultimate Source of wisdom. Wisdom is not something gained quickly. It takes time. Stay in God's Word. Read, study, meditate on the Word and memorize it and you will have begun the process of growing in wisdom.

Many have much knowledge, but don't mistake this for wisdom. Knowledge is having/knowing information and facts. Wisdom is knowledge plus ability to discern. It is insight, good sense and judgment and it has a spiritual element to it.

Ask God to give you wisdom and then spend time in His Word and in prayer. In time you will become wiser. James 1:5 - "If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him."

Let us follow the example of the Wise Men and follow the Heavenly King and not an earthly one. Let us make wiser decisions in this New Year.

Don't Miss Jesus!

2010-12-16T16:19:00.000-06:00

Jesus made His appearance here on earth in a very unassuming way. The very Son of God, the One who would bring salvation to all who would accept Him, was born in the lowliest of places. Jesus was born amidst the animals and placed in a manger (a feeding trough). "And she gave birth to her firstborn Son. She wrapped Him in cloths and placed Him in a manger . . . . ." (Luke 2:7)

Why did Jesus leave His throne in glory and make His appearance in such a lowly way? He did it for you. He did it for me. He came to bring salvation to ALL mankind. Yet, many did not notice Him. Today, many do not notice Him.

Don't miss Jesus! He isn't pushy. He isn't loud but He is here. If you have accepted His salvation, then He dwells within you and will never leave you. "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." (Hebrews 13:5b) Don't ignore Him. Don't get caught up in the trappings of the holiday season. Worship Him - the King of kings, the Lord of lords.

Don't miss Jesus this Christmas! Be still. Listen. Worship.

Hearing God

2010-12-06T15:22:00.000-06:00

Having trouble hearing God? Maybe we just need to be still. "Be still and know that I am God." (Psalm 46:10) If we are never still and quiet before the Lord, how can we expect to hear from Him? Elijah did not hear God in the great and powerful wind, the earthquake or the fire. He heard Him in a gentle whisper. (1 Kings 19)

If we are always in a turmoil or busy, busy "doing," we may miss what God is saying to us. If we spend quiet time (being still before the Lord), in His Word and in prayer, we will hear Him.

He speaks to us through His Word at our point of need. "The word of God is alive and active." (Hebrews 4:12) Try spending some time in His Word, be still and listen - you will hear Him.

Throughout Eternity

2010-11-19T08:12:00.002-06:00

God has a plan for our lives (I know you all know that!) - but have you thought about the fact that His plan for Christians reaches throughout eternity? Eternal life does not begin when we die. It begins when we accept Jesus as our Saviour. God has a plan for what He wants us to do now and throughout eternity.

Do you know what God's plan is for you today? For the near future? The distant future? If you don't know, ask Him. Seek His direction and then listen. Get quiet before Him so you can hear Him. Remember His plan for our lives will always include honoring Him and bringing glory to His Name.

Are you on the right path - the one God wants you to follow? Is your life bringing glory and honor to His Name?

Isaish 30:21 says, "Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you saying, 'This is the way, walk in it'."

We must seek His plan for our lives. He will show us which way to go if we truly seek His direction. He may only show us His plan for right now so we just have to trust Him with His future plans for us. Follow Him now and throughout eternity.

The Secret of Contentment

2010-10-30T12:05:00.000-05:00

"Godliness with contentment is great gain." (1 Timothy 6:6)

Feeling a little discontented these days? Ask yourself, "Why?" Do a little soul-searching and while you are searching, remember that you are "fearfully and wonderfully made" (Psalm 139:14). You are a unique creation of the Creator God.

Paul said in Philippians 4:11b, ". . . . .I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances." Paul had learned the secret of being content in every situation. That secret is found in Philippians 4:13 - "I can do everything through Him who gives me strength." God can and will give us a spirit of contentment. We have to ask.

I confess, this is an area I have prayed about consistently because I often find myself lacking in the area of contentment. God gave me the verse in 1 Timothy 6:6 years ago when I was confessing my lack of contentment.

I desire above all else to be the godly woman God wants me to be, therefore, I must learn to have a spirit of contentment. The key (secret) can be found in learning to lean on Him and trust Him in everything. Contentment may not come quickly, but it will come when we completely depend on Him for our strength.

Have We No Shame?

2010-10-22T16:16:00.000-05:00

The LORD was referring to all the people, even the prophets and priests, when He stated, ". . . .they have no shame at all; they do not even know how to blush" (Jeremiah 6:15b). The people had gotten so far away from God they had no shame.

America comes to mind. Have we no shame at all? Do we ever blush? The depths to which our morals (as a country) have fallen, cause many to have no shame about anything they do. Our country's standards may have changed, but God's remain the same. He remains unchanged. "Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever" (Hebrews 13:8). His commandments are still as applicable today as the day they were engraved on two tablets by God.

Prayer: Convict us Holy Spirit if we feel no shame when we sin against God. Lord, cause us to blush once again at the wrongs around us. Help us protect our eyes, ears and minds from anything that does not please you.

Did I make the right decision?

2010-10-09T11:35:00.000-05:00

I have been pondering all week the sermon Ray Pritchard preached at our Awaken service Sunday evening. He began with examples of people asking, "Did I make the right decision?"

Don't we all second-guess ourselves? What can you do now if you did make a wrong decision? Well, you can't change the decision you made in the past, you just have to go forward. One thing Ray said has stuck with me all week. "Quit trying to have a better past. It is what it is."

How many times have you wished you could change your past? The fact is, no one can change their past so let's "quit trying to have a better past." Let's get on with the process of living, of going forward because how we view our past affects how we live out our future.

Ray used Romans 8:28, "And we know that all things work together for the good of them that love God, to them that are called according to His purpose."

If this verse is true (and it most certainly is!), then even our past will work together for our good if we are one of His children.

Did I make the right decision when I (fill in the blank)? We may not know here on earth, but we can rest in the fact that God is Sovereign and He will work out even the wrong decisions for our good and for His glory if we will allow Him to.

Ray Pritchard: "I can't go back, I can't stay here, I must go forward."

"Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See I am doing a new thing!" (Isaiah 43:18-19a)

Seeing God In Everything

2010-10-04T12:30:00.002-05:00

It is easy to see God in the good things in life. It's even easy to praise Him for all His blessings. But, if we could learn to see God in everything that happens to us, that would be a major breakthrough in our Christian lives.

Do you want to become more Christ-like? If you do, then learn to ask God what He wants to teach you through your difficulties rather than asking Him why you are having to experience tough things. Learn to see God in everything.

God always has a purpose in allowing everything that touches our lives. Sometimes, God takes me through difficult times because He sees something in my life that needs some pruning - some cutting away. He sometimes allows deep hurts so I will rely on no one or no thing except Him.

When we come to a place where we can truly say, "Your will, not mine Lord," then He will teach us. He will give us what we need to endure our trials and He will bring us out on the other side changed into one who looks more like Jesus. Isn't that what we desire - to be more Christ-like? (I confess, it is an ongoing process in my life.)

Because God is Sovereign, we must learn to see Him in everything. "One Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all." (Ephesians 4:5-6)

Is it Well With Your Soul?

2010-09-24T11:44:00.000-05:00

Can you say, "It is well with my soul" no matter what happens in your life? As I listened and sang this song, It is Well With My Soul, at the funeral of one of God's saints who suffered from MS for over 34 years, I asked myself the question, "is it well with my soul?"

When life throws me curves, and it will, am I experiencing wellness of my soul? As I ponder this question, I think of my friends who have experienced really hard things - the loss of a spouse, prostate cancer, breast cancer, kidney transplant, broken wedding vows - my difficulties seem so trivial.

I have watched friends go through tough trials and most, if not all, can truly say, "It is well with my soul." How can we do that? By faith and trust in "Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine" (Ephesians 3:20). There is no other way.

Our God is sufficient to meet all of our needs. He is able. We just have to trust Him to give us victory in our every day lives - whatever our circumstances.

"Praise God from whom all blessings flow." (Doxology)

Songs in the Night

2010-09-14T15:57:00.000-05:00

God has a sense of humor, don't you think? It is amazing how He teaches me when I am preparing to teach others. As I prepared a lesson on how we respond to our difficulties, I realized I didn't score very well.

Paul and Silas were thrown in the inner cell of prison with their feet in stocks after they had been stripped, beaten and flogged (Acts 16). All this happened to them because they did the right thing - commanded the demonic spirit to come out of the slave girl, in the name of Jesus.

While Paul and Silas were in jail, "About midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God." (Acts 16:25) Is that how you respond to difficulties?

Prayer is one of my early responses when difficulties come, but I often spend a lot of time in tears before the song comes. God is the only one who can give us songs in the night - songs in our suffering. "Where is God my Maker, who gives songs in the night?" (Job 35:10) The psalmist said, "at night His song is with me" (Psalm 42:8). We must surrender/release our hurts, difficulties and sufferings to Him and trust Him with them.

Prayer: Lord, teach me to surrender everything to You - all my hurts, disappointments, changes in my plans, interruptions, etc. As I learn to surrender, help me trust You with the results - even the timing of the results. Give me songs in the night.

God's Eyes Are On You

2010-09-09T15:04:00.000-05:00

Most are aware that Satan roams throughout the earth and goes back and forth in it. (Job 1:7) What is his purpose? "Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour." (1 Peter 5:8 NIV) Satan, who is the thief, "comes only to steal, kill and destroy." (John 10:10 NIV) Satan wants to devour us, steal, kill and destroy. That paints a frightening scenario, but never fear, God is everywhere. He is Omni-Present. He doesn't have to roam, going back and forth, He is everywhere at the same time!

Did you know that God's eyes range throughout the earth? "For the eyes of the LORD range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to Him." (2 Chronicles 16:9 NIV) Notice God's purpose is to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to Him.

I am glad I serve the God who is Omnipresent, who is El Ro-i (the God who sees me). I am blessed to know Him personally for a very long time. But, Satan has a purpose and He is not easily discouraged. He sometimes gains a victory in my life for a time, but praise God, it is temporary. My God's eyes range throughout the earth to strengthen His children. His eyes are on ______________ (put your name in the blank if you are a believer.) He has promised He will not leave me (you), not ever.

Am I Completing God's Work?

2010-09-02T09:41:00.000-05:00

God has a plan for you and for me. "For I know the plans I have for you . . . . ." (Jeremiah 29:11). He has a work He wants each of us to accomplish here on earth. I have been doing a little soul-searching - Am I completing the work God gave me to do? Jesus did. "I have brought You glory on earth by completing the work You gave me to do," (John 17:4).
I am asking myself, "What is my work here on earth? Am I completing it? Is teaching Sunday School and Bible studies my work or have I missed the boat?" My desire is to bring glory to God so I need to complete the work He has for me. I need to follow His plan. Do a little soul-searching and ask yourself similar questions about your work. Is it His work, His plan for you?

One day I want to hear those words, "Well done, good and faithful servant" (Matthew 25:21). If we have sought out and followed God's plan, completed His work (and not our own), then those words will be spoken over us. Aah! music to our ears!

Light Bulb Moments

2010-08-24T19:31:00.001-05:00

Cartoons often use a light bulb to indicate the character has an idea or a revelation of some sort. Have you ever had a light bulb moment? I had one of those concerning life in general about three weeks ago. I usually clean certain areas of my house such as the breakfast room, keeping room and kitchen or our bedroom, bath and closet. That day I changed my routine and decided to clean all of the bathrooms first. When I finished cleaning all of them, I felt like a cartoon character with a light bulb in a balloon over my head. I asked myself, "Why? Why am I cleaning this many bathrooms and there are only two of us who live here?"

That day I realized it was time to downsize our home. Mind you, I had not been ready when we built this house almost three years ago but now, hmmmm I have different thoughts. I love our home and yard, but it goes beyond our needs and it does have to be cleaned. (Certain family members have accused me of being obsessive compulsive about cleaning. They shall remain anonymous.)

I had been reading The Treasure Principle by Randy Alcorn and I am sure that helped bring on the light bulb moment. His Treasure Principle Key #6 is "God prospers me not to raise my standard of living, but to raise my standard of giving." One of the scripture passages on which this is based is 2 Corinthians 9:11. "You will be made rich in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion."

God often blesses us so we can bless others, not just so we can have more and more material things. We really do enjoy giving to different ministries, missionaries, etc. God wants us to invest in eternal things more than earthly things.

"Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." (Matthew 6:19-21)

I do not know God's timetable on downsizing our home (providing a buyer and just the right home for us), but I will be ready when the time is right. Have you had any light bulb moments lately? I would love to hear about them!

Treasured Possession

2010-08-18T16:28:00.001-05:00

Malachi 3:17 - "They will be mine, says the LORD Almighty, in the day when I make up my treasured possession."

What does it take to be included as God's "treasured possession?" According to Malachi 3:16, God will make up His treasured possession from "those who feared the LORD and honored His name."

To fear the LORD, we must know who He is - know Him personally. We must be in awe of Him. We also must honor His name. To honor means "to recognize the value of someone or thing and to act accordingly." (Holman Bible Dictionary)

In order to honor God's name, we must know His name/names. When one studies the names of God (and there are so many!), one gets a glimpse of who God really is. When we see God called the LORD in Scripture (all capitals), it is the name YAHWEH (YHWH) or Jehovah - self-existent One who reveals Himself, I AM. That is just one name! Others : Adonai - Lord, Master; Elohim - God, mighty, strong - you get the idea. God's names reveal to us His character, who He is. How can we help but honor His name?

Fear God, honor His name. Be a part of God's treasured possession.

Josh and Tigger

2010-08-13T11:09:00.000-05:00

Is this a pair or what?

The Same Measuring Stick

2010-08-12T09:05:00.000-05:00

Recently, I read something that gave me cause to ponder. It essentially was that God doesn't need or want my help in judging others. Of course, I knew that! But, I pondered how many times I try to help Him out just a little in this area.

Many of us are prone to judge others on what we see or even what we hear someone has said or an action they have taken. Don't we really know that God doesn't need our help? I think so, but the human spirit often tends to be critical and judgmental (the writer includes herself in this group - sorry to say).

God's Word says: "Do not judge or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you." (Matthew 7:1-2) These verses should serve as a deterrent for our judmental tendencies. I pray God will remind me that He will use the same measuring stick on me that I use on others.

God's judgment is wrapped in His mercy and grace. Let us strive to show mercy and grace to our fellowman. I think we will like that measuring stick a lot better!

Let Go and Let God

2010-08-05T10:18:00.000-05:00

In Matthew 6:25 Jesus said, "Don't worry about your life. . . . ." In Philippians 4:6, Paul exhorts the Philippians, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God."

Don't worry. Do not be anxious. Hm-m-m-m - sounds a lot like commands not suggestions, don't you think? Yet, many of us spend far too much time worrying about something over which we have no control. Many of us spend needless hours being anxious rather than presenting our concerns to God. Or, maybe you presented them to God, but then took them back. "Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you." (1 Peter 5:7) Cast all you anxiety on Him and leave it there.

If we present our requests, our concerns to God instead of being anxious, we have a promise. That promise is, "And the peace of God which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 4:7)

Today, let's give our concerns to God and leave them there - let go and let God - and experience the peace of God all over us.

Am I a Jonah?

2010-07-29T11:03:00.000-05:00

Jonah was given the gift of prophesy. "The word of the LORD came to Jonah" (Jonah 1:1). He was quite happy using his gift as long as he could utilize it where he wanted to. As soon as God asked him to go to a different place (Ninevah) and a different people, he ran from God.

How many of us are like Jonah, at least for a time? I loved my ladies' Sunday School class. I loved teaching them. I loved what I was doing, but God drew me away from there. I was very comfortable sharing what God had taught me. The fact is, I was very attached to my class. For a time, I think I was very much like Jonah - I ran from God's calling.

God was calling me out of my comfort zone. I love teaching women, but I wondered how will the couples' class respond to my teaching? I didn't have to spend three days and nights in the tummy of a big fish, but I wonder if God had that ole fish ready for me.

Our gifts are from God. "Each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that." (1 Corinthians 7:7) They are to be used where and when He chooses and will often be out of our comfort zone. We must surrender to God's call and then trust Him to provide, Don't be a Jonah!

Why Forgive?

2010-07-20T19:05:00.000-05:00

Why should I forgive? They really do not deserve it, do they? They haven't asked for forgiveness or even admitted they hurt me or wronged me, so why should I forgive? The answer is, because Jesus did. "Jesus said, 'Father, forgive them, for they know not what they are doing'." (Luke 23:34)

If we truly want to experience freedom in our lives, we must forgive. Some of us need motivation to live out some of God's command. Here is the motivation - "And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sin." (Mark 11:25)

Forgiving others, especially those who do not deserve it, cleanses us from within. Great freedom comes from allowing God to heal the hurt and help us forgive the one who caused the hurt. Forgiveness brings release from negative emotions and the root of bitterness will find no place to grow.

Is it your desire to be more Christ-like? When we forgive the undeserving, we may look more like Jesus than at any other time in our lives. Ask God to help you forgive the underserving (aren't we all) and then experience the freeedom He gives.

Remember When

2010-07-13T12:00:00.000-05:00

At our recent class reunion, there were a lot of conversations that began with "Remember when . . . . . ." These words can be made in the form of a statement or a question. How great to remember all the fun times we had together and to be reminded of some we had forgotten!

The Bible uses the word remember numerous times throughout Scripture. Many times God is telling us to remember what He has done in our lives in the past. "Remember the wonders He has done, His miracles and the judgments He pronounced." (1 Chronicles 16:12) It is beneficial for us to remember what God has done in our lives through the years, so we can see His faithfullness.

Sometimes God wants us to remember something we did that was not pleasing to Him so we won't repeat the behavior. God does not want us to remember something from our past to put us on a guilt trip but to keep us from taking the same trip again. In Ezekiel 16, the Lord said His people had broken His covenant, but He would remember His covenant (v. 60). In verse 63, He told His people that they would "remember and be ashamed." We need to remember bad behavior (be ashamed) and never repeat the behavior.

While it is fun to remember our high school years and reminisce with friends, it is of much greater importance to remember what God has done in our lives. Remember your day of salvation. Remember His faithfulness and provision in your life. Take a trip down memory lane and praise Him for His faithfulness..

How Are You Feeling?

2010-07-03T12:32:00.000-05:00

How are you feeling about your life? Did you know that how you feel starts in your mind? "If we don't start thinking differently, we will never feel differently." (Beth Moore, When Godly People Do Ungodly Things, page 71)

Philippians 4:8 tells us "Whatever is true, honest, just, pure, lovely, and of good report, . . . . . . think on these things." Be careful what and how you think. It will change how you feel.

In Mark 12:28, a teacher of the law asked Jesus which commandment was the most important. Jesus answered, "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind." (Mark 12:30) It all starts in our minds.

Loving Jesus with all our minds will change how we think and how we think will eventually change how we feel. Take a little inventory of your thought life. What are you spending most of your time thinking about? Is it true, honest, just, pure, etc.?

Let's change how we think by loving God with all our hearts, souls and minds and saturating ourselves with God's Word. We will feel much better than when our thoughts are more focused on self.

Be a Little Kinder

2010-06-26T14:30:00.000-05:00

A few days ago in my Quiet Time, a sentence jumped out at me. "Today, be a little kinder than necessary to family members, friends, and total strangers." (365 Devotionals From Psalms for Women, page 169)

"Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32)

God has called us as believers to be different. What if today - this week - we tried to be a little kinder than is necessary to everyone with whom we interact? I think people would notice and wonder why. It is easy to be kind to those who are kind to us, but not so easy to those who are unkind.

Let the love of Jesus overflow from your heart to others. Be a little kinder than is necessary and everyone will be blessed - most of all you!

My Deliverer, the LORD

2010-06-15T09:54:00.001-05:00

In Psalm 18, God had delivered David from his enemies - Saul being one of the chief persecutors and pursuers of harm to David. David's response to God's deliverance was thankfulness. He recognized the fact that it was the LORD who delivered him. "I love You, O LORD, my strength. The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer, my God is my rock in whom I take refuge. He is my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold." (Psalm 18:1-2) Notice David's use of the personal pronoun my.

Many times difficulties in our lives draw us closer to God. We realize we can't handle the big things without Him. (In reality, we can't handle the small things either.) Our response should be one of praise and thankfulness when we realize God is our strength, rock, fortress, deliverer, shield, stronghold, salvation and much, much more. He truly is All-Sufficient. Let's depend on Him for deliverance and strength. Let's make Him our refuge and be grateful. God is a very personal God. He is my God, my deliverer. If you are His child, He is your God and your deliverer.

Delight Yourself in the Lord

2010-06-04T13:58:00.000-05:00

"Delight yourself in the LORD and He will give you the desires of your heart." (Psalm 37:4) I love this verse! Think about what it means to delight in something. When we delight in something, it gives us great pleasure, joy and satisfaction. I delight in my family, my friends, a delicious meal, completion of a project or task, a clean house, weeded flower beds, etc., etc.

Do I delight in the Lord? Yes! Maybe not as consistently as I should, but yes, I do delight in Him. When you delight in Him, He gives you a promise - "He will give you the desires of your heart." What a great promise! The crux (heart, truth) of this verse is when we truly delight in Him, our desires change. His desires become what we desire. It is not about getting what we want. It is about the changing of our hearts and minds to align with His. When we delight in Him, we have right/righteous desires.

"Delight yourself in the Lord,." and watch your desires change.

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

It Has to Start Somewhere

2010-05-26T14:37:00.000-05:00

While we were enjoying our first fresh green beans with new potatoes (and squash and of course cornbread), Eddie said, "I sure am glad I planted those green beans." I sat there thinking and got so tickled I couldn't eat. Eddie began to laugh and said he realized I had picked the green beans, snapped them, washed them, and then cooked them, but he laughingly said, "It has to start somewhere." He is exactly right.

The sowing of the seed of God's Word has to start somewhere. Are you willing to sow the seed and let someone else water? Are you willing to water what someone else has sown? God may call us to sow one time and water the next or lay the foundation this time and build the next. Let's just be available and willing to let God use us and then He will make things grow.

In 1 Corinthians 3:6, Paul said. "I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow."

Is God calling you to plant some seed in someone's life? Is He calling you to water what has been sown? What is your answer?

Kaylee - Our Only Granddaughter

2010-05-19T18:47:00.001-05:00

Kaylee is our only granddaughter and she is also our oldest grandchild. Where do I start?? What a joy she has been! I remember the excitement we experienced when we knew we were going to be grandparents and when the news came that it was a girl, well, I began sewing for her right away.

Kaylee made her appearance as a healthy little girl on July 24, 1990 and very soon it was obvious she had a mind of her own. It has served her well in her growing-up years. It has enabled her to stand up for her beliefs and convictions - standing alone if necessary.

What an outstanding personality she has, much like her dad. When she was between 3 and 4 years old, her mom and I were shopping at Talbots in Charleston, South Carolina and Kaylee infomed us she would sit at the bench near the front door in case anyone wanted to talk. I can assure you a number of people wanted to talk to this cute little blond!

Some of Kaylee's activities include swimming on the swim team when she lived in Atlanta, playing on the tennis team and serving as captain of the basketball cheerleaders at her high school, Briarcrest Christian School. In December of 2006, she decided to participate in the Miss Memphis Princess pageant and proceeded to win. She was also chosen as a Fan Favorite and Miss Congeniality in the Princess division. She was also selected by the Memphis Woman magazine as one of the 2007 outstanding young women of Memphis. She has attended Kanakuk Christian Sports Camp several summers and served as a counselor there last summer. She will also spend the last part of her summer this year as a counselor. She has been very active serving her community during her teen years. She has won other pageants and received other awards, but I can't remember them all!

Kaylee just finished her sophomore year at Mississippi State and has chosen to use six weeks of her summer on a mission trip with Campus Crusade for Christ. I couldn't be prouder of her for giving of herself and her time to share Christ with college students in Salerno, Italy. I miss her, and her mom, dad and brother really miss her, but I believe God is going to use her to make a difference in people's lives.

I can't wait to see what God is going to do through Kaylee. She is going to help change lives! God has blessed us with four dear grandchildren and I pray for Him to do wonderful things through each of them.

Trust Him in All Things

2010-05-12T20:32:00.000-05:00

What a joy to serve a God of grace. Nothing is too hard for Him! "Ah, Sovereign Lord, You have made the heavens and the earth by Your great power and outstretched arm. Nothing is too hard for You." (Jeremiah 32:17) We must learn to trust Him in all things - even the "impossible." When you serve an Almighty God, you can rest in Him and in His ability - that is trusting.

Have you wasted away the years of your life? Have you used your time carelessly? God can redeem the time you have wasted. "I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten." (Joel 2:25) We really can not understand this principle, but we can trust a God who has proven Himself faithful through the ages.

Oh yes, there are consequesces for our sins. There are consequesces for wasting precious time, but we can trust our God to deal triumphantly in our lives when we trust Him in all things.

Josh - Our Youngest Grandchild

2010-05-05T10:53:00.002-05:00

Josh, our youngest grandchild just had his 12th birthday! It seems such a short time ago when Joshua Brent Martin made his appearance into our lives and won our hearts. He will win yours too, most likely.

Josh is our actor, speaker, singer and is quite comfortable in front of a crowd (I knew this when I heard him give his report on grandparents day in the second grade!). Josh also swims on the swim team and is an avid reader. As long as I can remember Josh has wanted to help me cook - even if it meant only cracking an egg. He also takes an interest in our garden and my flowers.

Last summer (2009) will always stand out in my memory as a very fun time with Josh. Eddie and I had planned to travel out west in June and had mentioned to our grandchildren that we would love for them to go if their schedule permitted. It seemed at the time that they all had busy summers planned so we sort of forgot about it. About 9 o'clock the night before we were to leave, Eddie thought he better call Josh to see if he wanted to go (everyone else was busy at camp, etc.). About an hour later, Josh was at our house with his bags packed ready to go - thanks to a mom who got his things together rather quickly.

Very early the next morning, Eddie, Josh, Tigger and I began our trip to Durango, Colorado. Josh and Tigger have a very special bond - they happen to love each other. They were both excellent travelers - you have to be if you are going out west with Eddie because he drives, drives and drives!!! We reached our destination the following day.

We ate great food and saw beautiful scenery. Two of Josh's favorite activities, I think, were the Chuck Wagon Dinner Theater and the train ride from Durango to Silverton. Tigger and I drove to Silverton to get Josh and Eddie after the train ride. (I had ridden the train before and they didn't allow four legged creatures even if they think they are one of us.) The picture on this post was taken in Silverton, Colorado after the train ride.

Josh was a real trooper on this trip. He was easy to please and a joy to have along. Memories were made that won't soon be forgotten.

I can't wait to see how God will use Josh with all the talent He has given him. Josh is special and uniqe as are Kaylee, Kam and Case. I am so glad God has shared each of you with us. You are a blessing!

Obedience - Not Always the Easy Thing

2010-05-05T10:20:00.000-05:00

For months I felt the Lord was leading me to do something different, but I just didn't know what it was. Maybe I had a hint, but just didn't want to be obedient. The Lord did speak to me telling me to "do the next thing." I accepted His word for me and just began trying to do what was in front of me. Then, wow! Everywhere I turned in my Quiet Time, He was speaking to me. I heard things like obedience is not always the easy thing, but it is the right thing and I must die to self and my plans and embrace His plans.

God assures us if we are obedient to Him, we will look more like Jesus. That is the desire of my heart - to look more like Jesus - so what could I do but be obedient to what He was telling me. I knew Eddie wanted me to help him teach the couples class he has been teaching for over four years, but he would not ask me to give up my class. Giving up my class, that is the hard part! Working alongside Eddie and helping him teach and minister to a great group of couples, that is the good part. Being obedient, that is the blessed part.

"Teach me to do Your will, for You are my God; may Your good Spirit lead me on level ground." (Psalm 143:10) "To obey is better than sacrifice." (1 Samuel 15:22)

Laughter is Good for the Soul

2010-04-25T15:48:00.000-05:00

"A merry heart doeth good like a medicine." (Proverbs 17:22 - KJV) "Laughter is good for the soul" the saying goes. Have you laughed lately? A good hearty laugh surely makes one feel so much better than mustering up the energy to frown!

What a testimony to the unbelieving world when Christians laugh and have a merry heart. Look for things that will make you laugh. Focus on the positive and don't dwell on the negative. Focus on the blessings God has given rather than on the difficulties of life. There will be more smiles and laughter and less frowning.

The word blessed in Scripture can often be translated happy. The psalmist wrote in Psalm 119:1-2 - "Happy are they whose ways are blameless, who walk according to the law of the LORD. Happy are they who keep His statutes and seek Him with all their heart." Have you been seeking happiness in the wrong places? Christians find happiness in living a blameless (upright - without willful sin) life, walking according to God's Word, His teaching and instruction.

Another aspect of laughter is learning to laugh at ourselves. I had several occasions to laugh at myself last Sunday (it does not always come easy for me!). It was just one of those days. First I left my purse in the Sanctuary, then I wrote our memory verse on the board (Psalm 119:10-11) and left off the word not. It was a very important word - "that we might not sin against God." Read it without the not!! I could go on, but that is enough. How much better to laugh at ourselves than dwell on our inadequacies or mistakes. Laughter surely works good like a medicine. Don't forget to take your medicine!

So All Went Well

2010-04-13T15:52:00.000-05:00

The desire of our lives is often that things would go well for us. In Jeremiah, some key truths are given, that will help that desire be fulfilled.

"He did what was right and just, so all went well with him. He defended the cause of the poor and needy and so all went well. Is that not what it means to know me? declares the LORD." (Jeremiah 22:15b-17)

When we truly know God, we obey His commands. We do what we know is right and just and we defend the cause of the poor and needy. To really know Him, we must spend time with Him - spend serious time in prayer and in His Word. He will reveal Himself and His will through the pages of His Word and as we communicate in prayer.

"So all went well" does not mean nothing ever goes wrong. We live in a sinful, imperfect world so bad things happen to good people. It does mean - "All things work together for good to those who love Him and are called according to His purpose." (Romans 8:28)

Seek to know God with your whole heart so all will go well with you.

Do the Next Thing

2010-04-07T14:10:00.000-05:00

Are you overwhelmed? Do you think you have too much to do? You may be thinking - "Surely God wants me to give up something I am doing." That has been my thinking for months and I have been asking God for direction. I was convinced that He wanted me to give up at least one of my responsibilities, but I did not get clear direction of what it was to be. In November, I wrote in my Prayer Journal - "Lord, I will continue doing what I am doing right now until I hear from You." This was what I knew the Lord was saying to me at that time. I continued to pray for Him to show me what I was to give up.

Lately, everywhere I turn, I keep getting the same message - "Do what is in front of you right now." I received this same answer back in November. I guess I wanted to know what God wanted me to do this summer, this fall, etc. He had a different plan - keep on doing what you are doing until you hear from me. I trust He will give me what I need to keep on keeping on.

Priscilla Shirer shared the following quote from Elisabeth Eliot in Priscilla's Bible study, Discerning the Voice of God: "One of the best pieces of advice I ever got was 'Do the next thing.' ''

The Israelite elders told Moses to "Go near and listen to all that the LORD our God says. Then tell us whatever the LORD our God tells you. We will listen and obey." (Deuteronomy 5:27) The Israelites were afraid to hear from the Lord directly, but we can "come boldly to the throne of grace" (Hebrews 4:16) because Jesus opened the way through His death, burial, and resurrection. God desires the same thing from us as He did the Israelites - "listen and obey."

We need to listen to what God is saying to us and obey. Maybe He is telling you to give up something, but if not, just "Do the next thing."

Spring Break 2010 For Case

2010-03-31T13:34:00.000-05:00

What do 15-year-old young men do on Spring Break? Some go to the beach, others take trips, go fishing, play baseball, etc. This year my 15-year-old grandson, Case, went to see his Uncle Austin for his dental check-up - that's got to be fun! AND he went on a Mission Trip to Bayou DuLarge Baptist Church in Theriot, LA with his grandfather (Eddie).

I have such fond memories of Case as an infant. He is the only one of my grandchildren I had the privilege to keep for a period of time on a regular basis. While his mom worked part-time, Case went to our church's daycare. When I had Bible study or other meetings at the church, or just when I took the notion, I would pick him up at daycare and take him home with me. I did this every chance I got. He spent many afternoons with his Kay-Kay. He doesn't remember those days, but I sure do! He was such a good baby and such fun to be with.

Case has grown into a handsome young man of over 6 feet tall and still growing. He is a very conscientious student, but what I appreciate the most about him, is the fact that he has a mind of his own. He is not as easily influenced by his peers as many teenagers are. He became a Christian at a young age and enjoys being active in his youth group at church.

Case took part of his Spring Break to help the people of Bayou DuLarge Baptist Church. He stacked lumber at the saw mill one day and other days, helped in the building of a home for church members
who experienced a loss during a hurricane. When Eddie brought Case home that Sunday night, he asked him if he would like to go again. He said, "I would go again right now if I weren't so tired."

Case will always remember his Spring Break of 2010 and so will his grandfather. What a blessing grandchildren are! Our children and grandchildren are worth the investment we make in their lives.

"Even a child is known by his actions, by whether his conduct is pure and right." (Proverbs 20:11)

"Children's children (Kaylee, Kam, Case, and Josh) are a crown to the aged . . . . . " (Proverbs 17:6a) Well, I don't consider myself "aged" yet, but we are their thankful, and blessed grandparents.

Eddie said I would have been so proud of Case, and I assure you I am. I have a special place in my heart for all of my grandchildren. They are each unique creations of our Maker.

Don't Miss the Blessing of Obedience

2010-03-25T13:26:00.000-05:00

Jessie sent his son David to check on his three oldest sons who had followed Saul to war. He sent food with him and requested that he bring a report back to him.

David arrived at the camp, left his grain, bread and cheese with the keeper of the supplies, and went to the front lines to greet his brothers. David heard the giant, Goliath make his threats causing all Israel to run in fear. David began to question the men concerning the Philistine giant. As he did his oldest brother began to belittle him and he burned with anger toward David. Eliab asked, "Why have you come down here? And with whom did you leave those few sheep in the desert? I know how conceited you are and how wicked your heart is; you came down only to watch the battle." (I Samuel 17:28b) David's response to those words is understandable. "Now what have I done? Can't I even speak?" (I Samuel 17:29)

David had come to bring food to his brothers, check on their well-being and take a report back to their father. Eliab's words were completely wrong, but I am sure his words stung. When family members mistreat us, it is more painful even that the wounds caused by others.

David did not let his brother's hurtful words deter him. He did what his father asked him to do and then he did what God called him and equipped him to do - kill the Philistine giant, Goliath!

Don't let a family member, friend, or others deter you from carrying out God's mission for you. Don't let their discouraging and hurtful words keep you from being obedient to God's calling. Don't let them cause you to miss the blessing of obedience.

"To obey is better than sacrifice." (I Samuel 15:22b)

I'M WEARY LORD

2010-03-18T19:20:00.001-05:00

God sure turned my plans for this week upside down! Last week a good discription of me would have been tired, weak, powerless, discouraged, a little depressed, and yes, weary. I did not realize just how weary I was until God changed my plans.

My plan for this week included traveling Monday morning to New Orleans to take a class, returning late Wednesday afternoon, leaving early Thursday morning on a mission trip with Eddie's Sunday School class to south, very south, Louisiana. I packed my car with everything except my make-up kit Sunday afternoon. I woke up very early Monday morning thinking I should not make the trip. I got up, got on my face before the Lord, asking for His direction. He gave me a peace about not going. (I am thankful that unpacking takes a lot less time than packing!)

I didn't go on the mission trip either. God seemed to be telling me that I needed some time to relax, refresh, be refueled. I have had a quiet week at home (most people didn't know I was here). Sometimes we just need a little rest when we are tired and weary. God knows what we need even before we do. We just need to listen.

Several verses of Scripture came to my mind as I reflected on my lack of strength (my weariness) and on His All-Sufficient strength.

"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness" (2 Corinthians 2:9).

". . . nothing is too hard for You." (Jeremiah 32:17)

"He gives strength to the weary, and increases the power of the weak" (Isaiah 40:29).

Are you a little weary? Listen to your body and especially listen to the Lord. He will help us take better care of ourselves. He will refresh us and renew us. I'm getting there!

Never Be Shaken

2010-03-10T15:35:00.000-06:00

Psalm 15:5b - "He who does these things will never be shaken."

I don't want to be shaken - do you? Most of us want to be on firm ground, standing tall. What does a person have to do to avoid being shaken? The psalmist asked a question about who can dwell with God in Psalm 15:1 and proceeded to describe the kind of person who can. He, whose walk is blameless, is righteous, speaks truth from the heart, no slander is on his tongue, does his neighbor no wrong, casts no slur on his fellowman, and on and on. The person who does these things will dwell with the LORD and he "will never be shaken."

Dwelling with the LORD for a Christian, means spending time with Him in prayer and in His Word. The person who spends quality time with God is the person who will be blameless (without willful sin), righteous, honest, etc., and the one who "will never be shaken."

Everyone is a little shaken at times, but the one who dwells in God's presence on a continuous basis, will not be shaken permanently. God brings us back to a firm foundation and we will be strong in Him.

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

Picture Added to Post about Kam

2010-03-06T19:35:00.001-06:00

I have finally added a picture of Kam to the post "Just Another Day in the Life of Kam" for those who wanted to see him. It took a little help from my dear friend Beverly as I had not taken a picture from an e-mail and posted it to my blog. Still learning!!

Good News/Bad News

2010-03-04T10:28:00.000-06:00

Have you ever had to deliver a difficult message to someone? Personally, I prefer to be the deliverer of good news or encouraging words, but sometimes God calls His children to deliver bad news (or His judgment). Jeremiah was one such person. In Jeremiah 20, he was the deliverer of the unpopular message concerning Babylonian captivity for the Israelite people.

Jeremiah wanted to quit, but could not. "But if I say, 'I will not mention Him or speak any more in His Name, His Word is in my heart like a fire, a fire shut up in my bones. I am weary of holding it in; indeed, I cannot'."

God's Word burns in our hearts when the Holy Spirit teaches us and gives us insight into the truths of Scripture. Don't keep it in. Be like Jeremiah and deliver the Good News or the Bad News - whichever God calls you to do.

"For the Word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart." (Hebrews 4:12)

God's Word is God-breathed (2 Timothy 3:16), living, active, sharp, judges, and is like a fire. Take it in and give it out - Good News or Bad News!

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

Are You Listening?

2010-02-23T13:22:00.000-06:00

There is a time to be still. "The LORD will fight for you; you need only to be still." (Exodus 14:14) These were Moses' words to the Israelite people as they faced the Red Sea in front of them and the Egyptian army behind them.

There is a time to move on. "The LORD said to Moses ". . . . . . Tell the Israelites to move on." (Exodus 14:15b) God gave Moses instructions to raise his staff over the waters of the sea, so all night long Moses held his staff over the Red Sea. God sent a strong east wind to drive the sea back and dry the ground. That night God's angel moved from in front of the Israelites to the back. The clouds which had been in front of them moved behind them to provide darkness for the pursuing Egyptians.

The Israelites had to be still while they waited for God to do His thing and then it was time to move on. What would have happened if they had not been still when God told them to? What would have happened if they had not moved on across the Red Sea when God told them to move?

A huge miracle happened that day. The Israelites were still when God said to be still and they moved on when God said move on. Is God telling you to be still? Is He telling you to move on? Are you listening?

"Be still and know that I am God." (Psalm 46:10)

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

I Need a Little Sunshine (Son Shine)!

2010-02-19T13:48:00.000-06:00

Mississippi has lived up to her reputation for lots of gray days in January and February! I need a little sunshine, Lord! Many of us become discouraged, down, and even depressed when we don't see the sun shine. When I think of being depressed, I often think of Elijah and I am reminded that I am not the only one who has dealt with this malady.

Eliajah, an outstanding servant of the Lord, had a great victory over the prophets of Baal. His faith was shining that day when he called fire down from heaven and proved that the God he worshiped was the one true God. Ah, but Jezebel heard of Elijah's victory over the prophets of Baal and determined to take his life . Elijah was afraid of one woman and he ran for his life (1 Kings 19:3). Elijah, the same prophet of God who had just experienced victory over 450 prophets of Baal, now ran from one woman! Granted, she was Jezebel, but Elijah's God is the same God who had given him victory.

Elijah went into the desert and prayed that he might die. He said, "I have had enough, LORD. Take my life." (1 Kings 19:4) He was tired, discouraged, and hungry and God sent His angel to minister to him. Elijah fell asleep under the tree and the LORD's angel woke him and told him to eat. He ate and drank and lay down once more and slept. Again the angel awakened him to eat and drink. After Elijah rested, ate, and drank, he was strengthened and was able to travel 40 days and 40 nights. Then Elijah stood in the presence of the LORD.

When we get down, discouraged, and/or depressed, sometimes we just need a little rest. Sometimes we need to eat healthier foods and take in plenty of fluids. Sometimes, we just need a little sunshine. Always, we need the Son to shine on us. Always we need the presence of the LORD!

"Blessed are those who have learned to acclaim You, who walk in the light of Your presence, O LORD." (Psalm 89:15 NIV)

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

Just Another Day in the Life of Kam

2010-02-12T09:33:00.006-06:00

It was January 13, 2010. Kam, my 17-year-old grandson, started his day much like any other day. He drove his black F-150 pick-up to St. George's Academy (only a few miles from his home), where he is a junior and plays baseball. My guess is that he either skipped breakfast or grabbed something on the way out the door. Just an ordinary day in the life of Kam, but as his mom says, "Is any day really ordinary for Kam?"

Kam adds a little excitement to every day and always has. My job as his grandmother has always been to run interference for him - to try to keep him from getting in trouble with his parents. When he was young, I would try to distract him when he seemed to be pushing the envelope a litte too far. We have gone on walks down the beach and such to try to avoid getting in trouble. He wasn't bad, just fun and mischievous and had to see just how far he could go.

On January 13, 2010, I eased out of bed early in the morning as usual to begin my time of prayer and Bible study. Each morning of Kam's life, I have prayed for God's protection and I ask God to place His guardian angel over him (as well as my other grandchildren and their parents). I also ask for specific and personal needs. It is something God has compelled me to do so don't pat me on the back or anything. I tell you this to encourage you to pray for your children and grandchildren because "just another day" may turn out to be not "just another day." "For He will command His angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways; they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone." (Psalm 91:11-12)

That Wednesday, Kam and his friends got out of school a little early, so they made a quick trip to Chick-Fil-A before going to The Batter's Box to work out. Everyone had left except Kam and his friends, Zach and Hunter. Zach backed out of his parking place next to Kam and Kam saw Zach trying to get his attention. He got out of his F-150 pick-up and walked back to Zach's Honda Ridgeline truck. As Kam stood there, they realized his truck was moving and it quickly penned him between his truck and Zach's. Hunter jumped out of Zach's truck and pulled Kam's truck forward. Try to imagine this frightening scene as Kam's big truck penned him against Zach's truck!

Kam thought he was miraculously okay and proceded to drive himself to The Batter's Box, only to come to the realization that he had just experienced a very serious accident. As he drove himself home, he called his mom to let her know he was okay. At that point, he became emotional. I think the enormity of what had happened to him and the fact that he had walked away, hit him right between the eyes.

His dad took him to Campbell Clinic for tests and they found no broken bones, just very deep bruises. God protected Kam that day and I choose to believe He honored a grandmother's prayer - a grandmother who really is very insignificant in the scheme of things - but who has a special place in her heart for Kam. Kam has very strong thighs from working out and playing catcher. Those thighs along with God's hands protected him from serious injury.

Don't forget to pray for your children, grandchildren, or other children in your lives. God honors our prayers. "For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous and His ears are attentive to their prayer . . . . . . . (1 Peter 3:12).

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

(A note to my other three grandchildren: I plan to write about each of you in the future. You have a special place in my heart just like Kam. Each of you is different and special in your own unique way. But, you don't have to have an accident for me to write about you!)

Pass It On

2010-02-02T14:34:00.000-06:00

When you have something really good, don't you just want to pass it on? I love to share recipes that are really good. I love to pass them on. As believers in Christ, we have a commission to tell others about Jesus - especially parents to their children. After Joshua and his generation died, there was a serious problem. "Another generation grew up, who knew neither the LORD nor what He had done for Israel" (Judges 2:10b).

The result of that was, "Has a nation ever changed its gods? (Yet they are not gods at all.) But my people have exchanged their Glory for worthless idols" (Jeremiah 2:11). In Jeremiah 2:12, the LORD continues, "They have forsaken Me, the Spring of Living Water." This is what happens when one generation does not tell the next generation about God and what He has done in their lives. What a sad heritage for the children of that generation!

"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it" (Proverbs 22:6). Children must be trained/taught the Right Way. They need that foundation, the heritage, of being taught about Jesus and what He has done in our lives. We must be well grounded in our own faith so we can pass it on.

"The righteous man leads a blameless life; blessed are his children after him" (Proverbs 20:7). Let's be righteous women and lead a blameless life so our children (and grandchildren) will be blessed! Let's pass it on.

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

2010-01-25T13:42:00.003-06:00

I Love God's Confirmation!

2010-01-25T13:31:00.000-06:00

God blew me away this weekend as I attended the Siesta SMT Celebration in Houston, Texas. SMT stands for Scripture Memorization Team and the Siesta, well look on Beth's blog for an explanation. Beth Moore challenged her blog readers to memorize two Scriptures per month beginning in January 2009. Those of us who accepted her challenge would log on to her blog on the 1st and 15th of each month, type our Scripture, its reference, and our name and town. We each chose the verses we personally wanted to memorize. (This fact will be important as you read further in this post.) Months into the challenge, Beth decided she would host a celebration for those completing the challenge.

I immediately knew I wanted to attend this celebration, but would it work out for me to go? As the time drew nearer to register, I looked for someone to attend with me. I only knew one lady in Tupelo who was completing the challenge and she could not go. My husband volunteered to drive me because he wanted me to go, but did not want me to fly alone to Houston and have to get a taxi, etc. So my journey began.

As the day drew near, I began to question whether I was supposed to go, after all it was a long way for a short weekend. As soon as the celebration began, I received my answer. Don't you just love God's confirmation?! Travis Cottrell began our praise and worship time with "Now to the King eternal, immortal, invisible, the only wise God . . . . ." (Based on 1 Timothy 1:17 - one of my memory verses.) As Beth began to teach, her Scripture reference was from Psalm 119. My Sunday School Class has been reading through this longest chapter in the Bible during the month of January and I had pondered the thought of teaching through this Psalm. I couldn't believe it!

As Beth taught and read from the passage in Psalm 119, she read verses 10 and 11 - another of my memory verses. "I seek you with all my heart. Do not let me stray from Your commands. I have hidden Your Word in my heart that I might not sin against You." She could not possibly read all 176 verses from the chapter so it amazed me that she read these particular verses.

As Beth closed in prayer on Friday night, she referred to a passage in Isaiah which just happened to be another of my memory verses. "The Sovereign LORD has given me an instructed tongue, to know the word that sustains the weary. He wakens me morning by morning, wakens my ear to listen like one being taught." (Isaiah 50:4)

On Saturday morning, Beth read another of my memory verses as she began to teach from Psalm 119. "Your statutes are my heritage forever, they are the joy of my heart. My heart is set on keeping Your decrees to the very end." (verses 111-112)

God sent me two new friends, Judith and Lisha, who adopted me for the weekend. We shared a cab to and from the hotel to First Baptist Church, so Eddie did not have to get the car out of the parking garage and take me and pick me up. He got to relax in a very beautiful hotel - the Omni - hear FBC, Houston. I would definitely recommend it. Judith and Lisha were a blessing to me. During our Scripture share time on Saturday, we quoted our memory verses to each other. It was something to see 507 ladies quoting God's Word to each other!

This past year has been a blessing as I have quoted these verses every morning. Many of them were said as praises back to the Lord. When I would awaken in the night and could not go back to sleep, I would begin quoting my verses in my mind. Most of the time, I would fall asleep after quoting several. I only remember one time that I quoted all of them and started over before I fell asleep.

These are memories I will never forget. God's Word will always be in my heart and these twenty-four passages will always be extra-special to me.

Did I forget to mention that Eddie and I had a great time together traveling to Houston and back? When Eddie said, "We have really had a good time," I knew God had intended for us to go to Houston, Texas on January 22, 2010. I love God's confirmation!!

God Is In All and Over All

2010-01-19T10:18:00.000-06:00

God is in all and over all. That's a short explanation of the sovereignty of God. I am trying to get a better grasp of this truth about the God we serve, but I only have a glimpse of this monumental certainty.

God's sovereignty does not mean that everything that occurs in the world is His will because He has given us a free will and the freedom of choice. The Holman Bible Dictionary states: "The sovereignty of God involves God's self-limitation in order that His creation might choose freedom in Him." He lets us make the choice to choose Him. He never forces Himself on anyone. Yet, nothing ever happens to us that He has not allowed or caused - He is in all and over all.

When you study the book of Ruth, you get a glimpse of the sovereignty of God. It most likely was not God's perfect will for an Israelite man, Elimelech, to go the the pagan country of Moab when the famine hit Bethlehem, but God used those circumstances to bring about His plan. A young Moabite woman named Ruth married one of Elimelech's sons (Mahlon) while they sojourned in Moab. Elimelech's wife, Naomi, lost her husband and both of her sons while in Moab and then returned home to Bethlehem.

Ruth, one of Naomi's daughters-in-law, traveled back to Bethlehem with her and made a commitment to Naomi and Naomi's God. The sovereignty of God is written all over the life of Ruth as God took this young girl from a pagan country and placed her in the genealogy of Jesus Christ. ("Boaz the father of Obed, whose mother was Ruth." (Matthew 1:5b)

When you think nothing is going as you planned (and I suspect that Ruth and Naomi had those thoughts), remember if you are God's child, God is at work. In His sovereignty, He is always at work even when we cannot see His hand orchestrating events.

When you reflect on your life, I hope you see the sovereignty of God written all over it. Watch Him place you in certain places at certain times and remember that is a small glimpse of His sovereignty. What a comfort to focus on the sovereignty of our God!

"One God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all." (Ephesians 4:6)

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

Friendship

2010-01-13T15:07:00.000-06:00

God created us as relational beings (to have relationships). Our relationship with Him is the most important relationship in our lives but we also have a need that is fulfilled in friendship. The right kind of relationships/friendships will help our relationship with God because the better we relate to our friends, the better we relate to God. I might also add that the better our relationship is with God, the better it will be with our friends.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 - "Two are better than one . . . . . . If one falls down, his friend can help him up . . . . . . Friends are an important aspect of our lives. They make us better beings. They help us know ourselves better.

Selwyn Hughes makes an excellent point in his devotional book Every Day Light. He warns that we are not to be friendly just to gain a friend because that is the wrong motive - it is self-centered. His point is that we must desire to be a friend more than we desire to gain a friend.

Many years ago, my husband and I were transferred to Tupelo, MS and I was lonely with 2 young children. I prayed for God to send me a friend and He brought Proverbs 18:24 (KJV)to my mind. "A man that hath friends must show himself friendly." I was very shy and I had not been very friendly. I knew the Lord was telling me I would have to be friendly if I wanted friends.

Be friendly! Be more interested in being a friend than in gaining a friend. I think you will be rewarded. I was!

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

CLEAN OUT, THROW AWAY, KEEP, SIMPLIFY

2010-01-04T09:45:00.000-06:00

Whew! Just finished cleaning out the pantry. It's New Year's Day - a great day to start cleaning out, throwing away, and just generally simplifying my life. I began in my walk-in pantry. It's not huge, but it is large enough that it sometimes looks like a small grocery store. I frequently cook, so I like to keep ingredients on hand so a trip to the grocery store isn't necessary too often. As I cleaned, straightened, and organized my shelves, I checked for outdated items. Shocked, I was! I had a number of old dates on canned goods, boxes, etc. How long had it been since I had completed a thorough cleaning of my pantry?!!

You might imagine that I began to think about what I needed to clean out in my life. I began to ask myself - what do I need to get rid of, what do I need to clean up, what do I need to keep, and how can I simplify my life? At times, I try to do too much - too many different things - so I have been asking God what He wants me to keep and how does He want me to simplify my life. What does God want me to do with the resources with which He has equipped me?

God has a plan for my life and yours. "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD." (Jeremiah 29:11) How can we find God's plan for our lives? I think the verses following this verse shed some light on the question. "Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. I will be found by you." (Jeremiah 29:12-14a)

As I organized my pantry, I made decisions of what to keep and what to throw away. I need to do the same in my life, but it is not as simple as looking for a date on a can or a box. I need God to show me. Is it time for reflection and inventory? Is it time to seek God with all our hearts? Oh, yes! We have a whole new year in front of us so let's ask Him what He wants us to do with it.

Prayer: Lord, what do You want me to clean out, throw away, keep, and/or simplify in my life? Help me seek you with all my heart in 2010.

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

Note: Now on to closets, drawers, cabinets, etc.!! Wonder what all I will find?

Changed Forever

2009-12-28T10:09:00.000-06:00

The angel Gabriel appeared to the virgin, Mary and said, "You will be with child and give birth to a Son, and you are to give Him the name Jesus." (Luke 1:31) An angel also appeared to Joseph, a righteous man and said, "Do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a Son, and you are to give Him the name Jesus, because He will save His people from their sins." (Matthew 1:20-21)

From that moment on, the lives of Joseph and Mary would forever be changed. Any plans they had made or dreamed of together would be changed forever. They were chosen to be the earthly parents of God's Son and they accepted God's plan for their lives.

We dream and make plans, sometimes on our own without God's input, but God has His own plan for our lives. "For I know the plans I have for you . . . . . . . (Jeremiah 29:11). When Jesus becomes our Savior and Lord, He changes our lives forever. God continues to change the lives of those who invite Him into their hearts.

Christmas Day has come and gone but let us focus on the many lives the birth of Jesus has changed, beginning with Joseph and Mary. Let us focus on His plan for our lives instead of going our own way. God's plan for our lives is perfect. As the New Year approaches, may we allow Him to change our plans, our course in life, to His plan. May we be as obedient as Joseph and Mary.

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

Feeling a Little Depressed

2009-12-17T14:47:00.000-06:00

Several days ago, I received an e-mail stating that one of my favorite cousins had passed away suddenly. That afternoon, I realized I was a little depressed. I had been reflecting on Tony's life and the thought had crossed my mind that he wasn't much older than I am.

Tony was a godly, Christian man who was dedicated to his family and his church. Life was not always easy for him as he lost part of his arm in a farming accident when he was a young man. He continued his sweet disposition and always seemed upbeat. Most farmers are hardworking, honest men and Tony fit that description. The angels are celebrating in heaven.

As I gave thought to being a little depressed, I picked up a Christmas devotional book I had been reading daily during the month of December. That particular morning, I had read the Scripture and then laid it aside to come back to it later. The subject of the devotional - depression. God knew I would need to read this in the afternoon rather than that particular morning. Mary, the mother of Jesus, was the example given for how to overcome depression. In Luke 1:46-49, after the angel left her, Mary exalted and praised God instead of slipping into depression concerning what was about to happen to her. If I am praising the greatness of God, how can I stay depressed!

If I choose to focus on my depression, I won't be able to focus on God's goodness and greatness. Praising God will cause sadness and depression to leave and joy to fill our hearts. (I am not talking about serious depression that sometimes requires medical attention. I am focusing on sadness and mild depression.)

Will I still be sad because of the death of my cousin? Yes! But if I focus on praising God and exalting Him as Mary did, I won't wallow in depression. When I focus on God through difficulties, I am reminded He is Sovereign and He never leaves me or forsakes me.

My prayer is for God's comforting and healing hand to be on all who have lost loved ones, especially during the Christmas season. I ask God to help us focus on Him and not on ourselves and our circumstances.

"Praise the LORD. Praise, O servants of the LORD, praise the name of the LORD. Let the name of the LORD be praised, both now and forever more. From the rising of the sun to the place where it sets, the name of the LORD is to be praised." Psalm 113:1-3

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

Recipes for NOGS Reunion

2009-12-14T16:58:00.000-06:00

Dear NOGS Bible Study Group,

Below find the recipes I used for our reunion. Hope you enjoy! May we never forget the summer we studied No Other Gods together. What a blessing the study and our fellowship together were to me.

Love,
Kay

BBQ BEEF BRISKET

1 Beef Brisket (5-6 pounds)
3 oz. Liquid Smoke
Celery Salt, Onion Salt, Garlic Salt
Worcestershire Sauce
Salt and Pepper
BBQ Sauce

Place meat in shallow pan or dish. Pour liquid smoke over meat (pierce both sides several times with fork). Sprinkle with salts. Refrigerate overnight, covered. Sprinkle both sides with salt and pepper, pour on worcestershire sauce (about 2-3 T). Cover with foil and bake at 275 degrees for 5 hours. Uncover - pour BBQ sauce over meat. Bake uncovered for approximately 1 hour. Remove meat to platter.

For Gravy - let liquid from meat cool and remove excess fat. Add 2 T. flour and 1/2 cup water. Cook until gravy thickens somewhat.

This recipe came from Carolyn Wilson Tyler many years ago.

MIXED GREEN SALAD

I used enough romaine, baby spinach, and spring greens for a large salad bowl. (Can use any mix of greens.)
1/2-3/4 cup dried Cranberries
1 Granny Smith or other Apple, chopped
1 cup pecans, coarsely chopped
1 package Ramen noodles, crushed (discard seasoning)
1/2 stick butter

Melt butter in skillet, add nuts and ramen noodles. Cook on low heat until lightly toasted. Set aside to cool.
Place greens in salad bowl. Add cranberries, apple, and nuts/ramen noodles. Drizzle with Sweet Paprika dressing just before serving. (You can use oranges, mandarin oranges, or fresh strawberries instead of cranberries and apple.)

SWEET PAPRIKA VINAIGRETTE

2 1/2 T. Cider Vinegar
2 1/2 tsps. Honey
1/2 tsp. Lemon Juice
1/2 tsp. Paprika
1/3 cup Sugar
1/2 tsp. Dried Mustard
1/2 cup Canola Oil

Mix all ingredients in a pint jar, except oil. Heat in Microwave for 30-45 seconds. Add Oil and shake well. May be refrigerated. Heat again in microwave and shake before serving. (This recipe was origianally in Mississippi Magazine, but I made a few adjustments.)

CHEESE GRITS

4 cups Water (substitute 1 can Chicken Broth for part of water)
1 tsp. Salt
1 cup uncooked Quick Grits
3 cups shredded Sharp Cheddar Cheese
1/4 cup Butter
1 tsp. Pepper
1 tsp. Worcestershire Sauce
1/4 tsp. Hot Sauce (I use Trappey's)
2 large Eggs, lightly beaten
Paprika

Bring water and salt to a boil and slowly add grits. Return to a boil, reduce heat and simmer, stirring occasionally, 5-7 minutes or until thickened. Add cheese and next 4 ingredients, stirring until cheese melts. Remove from heat; let stand 10 minutes.

Stir in eggs, and pour into a lightly greased 11 X 7 inch baking dish. Sprinkly with paprika.

Bake at 350 degrees for 1 hour or until set. (8-10 servings)

CHERRY BERRY ON A CLOUD

Shell: 6 Egg Whites, 1/2 tsp. Cream of Tartar, 1/2 tsp. Salt, 1 3/4 cups sugar

Heat oven to 275 degrees. Butter a 13 X 9 X 2 inch pan. Beat egg whites, salt, and cream of tartar until frothy. Gradually add sugar. Continue beating until stiff and glossy, about 15 minutes. Spread in pan, bottom and sides. Bake for 60 minutes. Turn oven off and leave the meringue in oven for 8-12 hours. (Overnight works.)

Filling: 1 cup Sugar, 2 cups Whipped Cream, 1 tsp. Vanilla, 2 cups Miniature Marshmallows, 6 oz. Cream Cheese.

Mix cream cheese with sugar and vanilla. Fold in whipped cream and marshmallows. Spread over meringue and refrigerate until set.

Topping: 1 can Cherry Pie Filling, 1 tsp. Lemon Juice, 2 cups sliced, sweetened Strawberries

Stir together and spread over filling. Serve chilled.

(This recipe came from Lynn Dye many years ago when she was my neighbor. I have this recipe in her handwriting, but I also saw it in Mississippi Magazine with her name - possibly last year. It apparently has been published in the cookbook,
Look Who Came to Dinner.)

Finding Pleasure and Satisfaction

2009-12-08T15:17:00.000-06:00

In the book of Esther, King Xerxes bestowed a high honor on Haman - an honor higher than all the other nobles. We do not know why the king chose to honor Haman, but honor him he did. Everyone was to bow down to Haman to honor him and everyone did except for the Jew named Mordecai. (Mordecai was Queen Esther's relative and adoptive father.) Haman had everything going for him by the world's standards. The king had honored him, all the people bowed to him and gave him honor, but one man would not bow the knee and this caused Haman to be in a quandry.

When Haman saw that Mordecai would not bow to him or pay him honor, he became enraged (Esther 3:5). We again see that Haman was filled with rage when he saw Mordecai would not show fear in his presence (Esther 5:9).

Haman had much wealth, many sons, and honor from the king, so much so, that he called all his friends together for the purpose of boasting about all he had. Yet, Haman could find no pleasure and satisfaction in his family, friends, wealth, power, and status because Mordecai refused to honor him. Haman thought it was Mordecai's fault that he was not happy and satisfied. Whom are you blaming for your unhappiness, dissatisfaction, and discontent?

Where are you seeking pleasure and satisfaction? True pleasure and satisfaction will never be found in things or people because there will always be a "Mordecai" who will not bow the knee to you and there will always be someone who has more than you do. True pleasure and satisfaction will be found in Jesus Christ alone because Jesus alone satisfies.

"Praise the LORD, O my soul . . . . . . . . . . who satisfies your desires with good things . . . . . . . (Psalm 103:1a, 5a)

David said in Psalm 16:11, "You have made known to me the path of life; You will fill me with joy in Your presence, with eternal pleasures at Your right hand."

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

ARE YOU BUSY?

2009-12-03T13:39:00.000-06:00

Why do I do the things I do? Am I busy doing what God has called me to do, or am I doing what I do to look important, to be busier than anyone else, etc.?

A devotional in Journey magazine suggested that some of us have made our busyness a prideful thing. (Ouch!) We want to say I do this, I do that, or I'm busier than you. The devotional also suggested that some of us are busy because we have an unconscious need to feel important. (Ouch!)

Many of us are too busy at times, especially as we near Christmas. "But God doesn't want us to be so busy that we are overwhelmed." (Journey, December 2, 2009)

I don't know about you, but I have certainly been so busy at times that I have felt overwhelmed. It is time to take account of how we use our time. We need to ask ourselves: Why do I do this or why do I do that? Is it something to feed my ego or is it something God has called me and equipped me to do? Am I doing this for the right reasons? Am I too busy to spend time alone with God?

Our prayer might be to ask God to show us what He wants us to do with our time. Ask Him to help us get our priorities right in this area. Each of us has the same amount of time - 24 hours each day. How we choose to use those hours makes the difference.

I desire to use my time in obedience to Him, not so I can feel important or to feed a prideful spirit. This requires some time at the feet of Jesus, listening and then doing what He tells me to do.

STRAINED RELATIONSHIPS

2009-12-01T16:09:00.000-06:00

This Thanksgiving, did you sense that a certain relationship wasn't what it should be, or like you desire it to be? (I know many of you experienced this because of your comments to me.) This is very common during the holiday season when families get together. We are often tense and on edge, and might I add, a little tired, during this time of year and relationships are sometimes strained.

Most of us desire the ideal in our family relationships. We would like our families to be picture-perfect but many times, they are not. Why? Because families consist of flawed individuals, that includes you and me, and there in lies the problem.

One way to help in a not-so-perfect situation is to be the one with the good attitude. Also, be the one who is accepting of the ideas and ways of others. Our way of doing things is not necessarily the best way, and is certainly not the only way. Overlook the little slurs, the lack of respect, and continue to love the person and treat them with kindness. Oh, you may think they really don't deserve it, but I'm just saying if we continue to treat with kindness those who mistreat us, we will be the one who has peace. Try it. It works.

In the last part of Micah 7:6, the prophet states, "A man's enemies are the members of his own household." Many of you know this to be true, but it is sad. In Matthew 5:44, Jesus tells us to "Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you." This is what we must do in our strained relationships.

We must do what God commands us to do and then thank Him for His many blessings. If we focus on what we do have (the really good relationships), then what we do not have will be minimized. Remember to always seek direction from God for His will is "good and pleasing and perfect." (Romans 12:2)

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

HAVE A THANKFUL HEART

2009-11-25T11:45:00.000-06:00

"Be thankful." "Count your many blessings." We hear these statements often at this time of the year, but do we have a thankful heart? Are we counting our blessings?

Life may be tough right now. Your husband's job may be in jeopardy or he may already be without work. You may be concerned about your job or you may have a difficult boss or bad working conditions. Some of you have serious and/or life-threatening illnesses in your family. Some have children who have behaviorial problems and some are dealing with rebellious teens that are going against everything you have taught them. You ask, "How can I have a thankful heart? How can I count my blessings?"

No matter how bleak things seem, we always have many things for which we can be thankful. Ask God to show you your blessings and to give you a thankful heart.

Let's make a list of our blessings and the things for which we are thankful.

I am thankful for: My Savior, Jesus Christ and for life eternal; Eddie, Paula, Kelly, Kaylee, Kam, Brent, Meredith, Case, Josh; my extended family; godly Christian friends; Christian upbringing and godly, Christian parents; my Sunday School class; our home; the beauty of the earth; good food; opportunities for service; good health, etc., etc., etc.

The psalmist says: "Come, let us sing for joy to the LORD; let us shout aloud to the Rock of our salvation, Let us come before Him with thanksgiving and extol Him with music and song." (Psalm 95:1-2)

In Psalm 100, the psalmist says: "Shout for joy to the LORD, all the earth. Worship the LORD with gladness; come before Him with joyful songs. Know that the LORD is God . . . . . . . . . Enter His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise; give thanks to Him and praise His Name. For the LORD is good and His love endures forever; His faithfulness continues through all generations."

Prayer: God give us thankful, joyful hearts full of gratitude. Help us count our many blessings and help us focus on You, our Provider, our faithful God.

Let's Take Inventory

2009-11-18T14:53:00.000-06:00

Before the holidays, let's take an inventory of how we take care of our bodies. Why? Because our "body is the temple/sanctuary of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have received from God." (1 Corinthians 6:19)

Our Inventory Should Include:
1. How much time am I spending in prayer and Bible study?
2. How much time am I spending exercising (walking, biking, running, and/or just moving)?
3. What am I eating? How much am I eating?

We can become healthier beings who honor God with our bodies if we:
1. Nurture our spiritual life (this is the most important).
2. Show restraint (self-control) in how much we eat as well as what we eat.
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, . . . . . . . . . . and self-control." (Galatians 5:22-23)
3. Get moving. Active people burn many more calories than those who are sitters. Add exercise to what you are already doing.

Food is so much a part of our holiday celebrations! Enjoy!! But enjoy a little less (smaller portions). You won't feel deprived if you eat what you love, but eat just a little less than you normally do. Ask God to help you be satisfied with less. Spend time alone with God during the busy holiday season. Don't neglect your spiritual life. Move your body. You will feel better.

A friend who runs with a group says she is not a runner and does not enjoy running. She does enjoy the fellowship and how it makes her feel after she runs, so she keeps on running.

Find something you enjoy (biking, walking, water aerobics, etc.). Join a group or enlist a friend to move with you. It will be a lot more enjoyable and you can hold each other accountable.
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Enjoy Thanksgiving and Christmas! I plan to and I plan to take my own advice. I have already taken inventory! Do you know where I fall short in my inventory? I do. Where is your weakness? Where is your strength?

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

Recipes for Bible Study Group

2009-11-12T19:22:00.000-06:00

Girls, Here are the other recipes from Wednesday Bible Study Lunch.

CORN LIGHT BREAD

2 cups self-rising Corn Meal
1/2 cup self-rising Flour
3/4 cup Sugar
2 cups Buttermilk
1 T. Canola Oil
1 Egg

Mix all ingredients together with a large spoon (no mixer) just untill well mixed.

Bake in an ungreased loaf pan at 375 degrees for about 55-60 minutes, or until golden brown.

STRAWBERRY CAKE

1 (3 oz.) package Strawberry Jello
1/2 cup Hot Water
1 Box White Cake Mix
4 Eggs
2/3 cup Canola Oil
1 cup sweetened Strawberries, mashed
1 recipe Strawberry Frosting

Preheat oven to 300 degrees. In small bowl, dissolve Jello in hot water. Set aside.

In medium bowl, beat cake mix, eggs, and oil together until well blended. Add dissolved Jello and mix well. Stir in strawberries.

Pour batter in 3 greased and floured 8 inch cake pans. Bake 28-30 minutes or until center of layer springs back when gently touched. Remove from oven and place on cooling racks until cooled.

Frost layers with Strawberry Frosting

STRAWBERRY FROSTING

1 stick of Butter, softened
1 (16 oz.) box Powdered Sugar
1/2 cup sweetened Strawberries, mashed

In large bowl, mix together butter, powdered sugar until smooth. Add strawberries. Mix well.

Hint: If needed, you can adjust the amount of strawberry juice and/or add powdered sugar to get the thickness you desire.

Recipes from Bible Study Luncheon

2009-11-12T15:28:00.000-06:00

Okay, Bible Study Group, I am posting the recipes from our luncheon as requested. I will start today, and maybe finish tomorrow.

Chicken Corn Chowder

3-5 slices of Bacon
1/2 cup diced Celery
1/2 cup diced Onion
1/2 cup diced Carrot
3 T. Plain Flour
4 (or more) cups Chicken Broth
2 cups (or more) chopped cooked Chicken
2 cups peeled and chopped potatoes
1 (20 oz.) pkg. frozen cream style corn, thawed
1 cup frozen whole kernel corn
1/2 tsp. poultry seasoning
1 cup heavy cream
Salt and Pepper to taste

Cook bacon in Dutch oven until crisp. Drain bacon and set aside. Reserve 1 tablespoon of drippings. Saute celery, onion, and carrots in drippings until tender. Stir in flour, stirring constantly, for 3 minutes. Slowly whisk in broth, scraping sides of pan if necessary.

Add cooked chicken, potatoes, corn, and poultry seasoning. Cook for 15 minutes (or longer) until potatoes are tender. Add cream (milk won't be as rich or tasty, but could be used) and slowly heat through. Season with salt and pepper. Garnish with crumbled bacon.

Hint: Use however much chicken broth to make it the consistency you like. I also like to let it simmer for a while (longer than 15 minutes) for the flavors to mingle. I use chicken breast.

Citrus Salad

2 T. chopped Walnuts or Pecans (optional)
1 (5 oz.) bag of Mixed Baby Greens (washed)
2 Navel Oranges peeled and sectioned
1 large Grapefruit peeled and sectioned
1 pear, peeled and thinly sliced
1 cup seedless grapes, halved

Preheat oven to 35o degrees. Bake nuts in a single layer in shallow pan for 6-8 minutes or until toasted and fragrant.

Place greens in a large bowl and add orange and grapefruit sections, grapes, and sliced pear. Drizzle dressing over salad and toss. Sprinkle with nuts or serve on the side. Serve immediately.

Orange Vinaigrette

1/4 cup White Wine Vinegar
2 tsp. grated Orange Rind
3 T. fresh Orange Juice
1 T. Sugar
1/2 tsp. Salt
1/2 tsp. Pepper
3/4 cup Olive Oil

Whisk together frist 6 ingredients in a small bowl; add oil in a slow steady stream, whisking until blended.

Hint: The dressing can be made ahead and placed in refrigerator. Oranges, grapefruit, and grapes may be prepared ahead and kept in refrigerator to make it easier at time of serving.

PERFECTIONISM

2009-11-11T14:55:00.000-06:00

What is a perfectionist? Well, I am quite sure I don't want to be called one because it carries with it the idea that one thinks he or she can do something perfect. No one can! There has only been one man who has ever walked on the soil of this earth who is perfect. His name is Jesus.

Yet, most of us have areas where we have perfectionist tendencies. I have to admit to some and I reluctantly admit I have been called a perfectionist. Those who deal with perfectionism set themselves up for disappointment in themselves as well as in others. I have been there - have you?

If we expect perfection from ourselves, we are more likely to expect perfection from others. They cannot deliver (of course, neither can we) and this causes disappointment. People and relationships are more important than our desire for perfection.

A worthy goal for us: Strive to be the best we can be with God's help and accept (be content) that even our best is less than perfect. First Timothy 6:6 says, "Godliness with contentment is great gain." Contentment will never be achieved as long as we think we can attain perfection. When we have given our very best effort, let us rest and be content.

Pimento Cheese

2009-11-04T14:18:00.001-06:00

Sandra (one of my BFF's) requested that I make this my first recipe to post on my blog. I found it in Southern Living, but made some changes. It is great with crackers or on whole wheat bread. It has become my favorite (and Eddie's) pimento cheese recipe.

1 (8 oz) pkg. Cream Cheese (I use Neufchatel)
1 (4 oz. jar diced Pimento
1/2 C. Mayonnaise
Dill Relish to taste (or sweet relish if you prefer)
Freshly Ground Pepper to taste
3-4 C. shredded Sharp Cheddar Cheese

Microwave cream cheese in a microwave-safe bowl at HIGH 1to 1 1/2 minutes or until melted and smooth, stirring at 30 second intervals. Stir in diced pimento, mayonnaise, relish and pepper. Stir in cheddar cheese. Can serve immediately or cover and chill. Keeps well in refrigerator.

Suggestion: Serve these sandwiches with homemade tomato soup for a nice, easy winter meal.

I Think I Smell Smoke

2009-11-02T14:38:00.000-06:00

This devotional was originally written in August 2008. Since we are studying Turning Points in Daniel's life, the subject of his three friends and one of their major turning points was part of our study in Sunday School yesterday.

I'm a little choked up this morning. I think it's my allergies acting up and I think I know why.

I have been in a fiery furnace lately. Actually, I feel a little ashamed to call it a fiery furnace when I think of Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah's real fiery furnace (better known as Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego.)

All of us have our difficulties and trials and sometimes they feel a lot like a fiery furnace. I was reading Daniel 3 again this morning and was reminded of how Hannaniah, Mishael, and Azariah came through their fiery furnace unscathed, unscorched, and not even the smell of smoke on them. I am concerned about how I am handling my fiery furnace.

"So Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego came out of the fire, and the satraps, prefects, governors, and royal advisers crowded around them. They saw that the fire had not harmed their bodies, nor was a hair of their head singed; their robes were not scorched, and there was no smell of fire on them." (Daniel 3:27-28)

You might have an idea why I am all choked up, but just in case you didn't get it, I am allergic to smoke. I am very convicted that my faith and my trust in my God (the same God these three young Jewish boys worshiped), has been very small in my fiery furnace. Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah believed that our God is able to save and rescue. Most of you will remember the story - God did not deliver them from the furnace, but He delivered them through it. Either way, He is able and He will do it. In Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah's words: "If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to save us from it, and he will rescue us from your hand, O king, but even if He does not, we want you to know, O king, that we will not serve your gods or worship the image of gold you have set up." (Daniel 3:17-18)

PRAYER: Lord, forgive us for our unbelief, our lack of trust. You are able to deliver. You will help us through our fiery furnace even if you do not deliver us from it. Thank You and praise You that you are trustworthy.

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

(Today, I do not remember what fiery furnace I was going through in August 2008, but God obviously delivered me from it or through it. This time next year, maybe you will not be able to remember the fiery furnace you are experiencing right now.)

These Troubled Times

2009-11-02T12:15:00.000-06:00

We truly are living in troubled times. Many leaders - from Washington on down - seem to be going their own way and not God's way. Even in these troubled times, we must remember that God is in control - He is sovereign.

In Isaiah 45, we see a very interesting concept. God anointed and bestowed a title of honor on a king who did not acknowledge Him.  "This is what the LORD says to His anointed, to Cyrus, whose right hand I take hold of to subdue nations before him . . . . ; I will go before him . . . " (Isaiah 45:1-2). This passage was written about 150 years before there was a king Cyrus which makes this passage even more profound.

King Cyrus was a Gentile king who did not acknowledge God but God had a purpose for placing Cyrus in that position. "For the sake of Jacob my servant, of Israel my chosen, I summon you by name and bestow on you a title of honor though you do not acknowledge me" and "so . . . men may know there is none beside Me." (Isaiah 45:4, 6)

God is sovereign. He truly is in control of everything and can use pagan, non-believing leaders to accomplish His plan. Our leaders, whether we like them or not, would not hold their offices unless God allowed it or chose them for their positions.

A comforting thought - God is always in control and He is always faithful and trustworthy. We can rest in that truth in these troubled times.

Serving Him,
Kay Martin

America, There Is Hope

2009-10-27T13:35:00.000-05:00

America, my country, continues to be on my heart. The LORD told Jeremiah, "If at any time I announce that a nation or kingdom is to be uprooted, torn down and destroyed, and if that nation I warned repents of its evil, then I will relent and not inflict on it the disaster I had planned." (Jeremiah 18:7-8)

It seems that it just might be time for America to "repent of its evil" so the Lord will relent and not inflict on us the disaster He has planned. Many Americans have turned their backs on God and are worshiping material possessions, power, prestige, social standing, other people, etc. Worshiping these things? I think God would say, "Yes, America, you are worshiping these things."

When we place anyone or anything before God, that person or thing becomes an idol. What has mankind always done with idols? Of course, the answer is, worship them. The first of the Ten Commandments is "You shall have no other gods before me" and the second one is "You shall not make for yourself an idol in the form of anything . . . . . . . . . . You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I the LORD your God am a jealous God . . . . . ." (Exodus 20:3-5)

If we rid ourselves of our idols, turn to God, and repent of our idolatry (our evil), then God will hear us and He will relent from His punishment. America, there is HOPE!

Serving Him,

Kay Martin

God, Heal Our Land

2009-10-20T10:31:00.000-05:00

God has given us the prescription for bringing healing to our land. "If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land." (2 Chronicles 7:14) This verse of Scripture is written to God's people, so we need to heed His directions. First, we are to humble oursleves. Most Americans could use a big dose of humility! As Christians, humility should be a defining characteristic in our lives, but some of us have gotten so far away from a spirit of humility, we may not know what it looks like! God says, "Humble yourselves, pray, and seek my face." Once we humble ourselves, we will see the need for prayer and for seeking God's face. Prayer draws us closer to God as we pour out our hearts to Him and listen to Him. "Seek His face." Seek to know who He really is. The more we know Him, the more humble we will become and the more we will see the importance of prayer. The formula for God to heal our land is simple. As God's people, we must humble ourselves, pray, and seek His face. When we do these three things, God says, "THEN (my emphasis) I will hear from heaven, will forgive their sin, and will heal their land." It is worthy to note that this formula is for God's people, not the world, and not politicians who are unbelievers. We are often very quick to blame our politicians for the woes of our country, but God promises healing to our land when His people humble themselves, pray and seek His face. God always keeps His promises. Let us humble ourselves, get on our knees, and seek His face. If we as God's people do that, then I trust that He will heal our land. Serving Him, Kay Martin

God is Love

2009-10-12T12:33:00.000-05:00

"And He passed in front of Moses, proclaiming, 'The LORD, the LORD, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness, maintaining love to thousands, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin. Yet He does not leave the guilty unpunished'." (Exodus 34:6-7) Beth Moore used these verses of Scripture as her focus passage for the Living Proof Live conference this past weekend in Memphis, TN. What a blessing!

God abounds in love. His love is loyal and steadfast. He maintains His love, which means He guards His love for us, protects it, and keeps it. "God is love", (1 John 4:16). Most of us have head knowledge of these facts about God's love. Do we have heart knowledge? Can we grasp the truth that no matter what, God loves us?

Beth pointed out to us the fact that because "God is love," He cannot love us less or He would be less God. Grab onto this truth. God loves us, no matter what. This truth will change our lives. Many of us feel unworthy of anyone's love, but if Christ lives in our hearts, we are loved now and always will be.

Now what do we do with that love? We must love as God loves us. We must protect, maintain, and guard our love for others, especially for family.

The Virtuous Woman

2009-10-06T13:58:00.000-05:00

"Who can find a virtuous woman?" (Proverbs 31:10) The Proverbs 31 woman is a rare jewel. She does it all! She is the ideal or model God has placed in His Word for us to pursue. Her husband has full confidence in her and she brings him good not harm. If you are married, the first order of business is to bring your husband good not harm. Look for his good points. Remember what attracted you to him in the first place. Learn to overlook some of his idiosyncrasies. He is most likely overlooking some of yours. The Proverbs 31 woman is a busy woman. She is not idle. She works with eager hands and she works vigorously. This has a lot to do with her attitude and some of us may need an attitude check. Are you facing your day's work with a feeling of resentment? Are you working with eager hands and with vigor? The amount of work you are able to accomplish depends on several personal circumstances, but the attitude with which you face your duties, comes from the heart. Let's let God check out our attitude and our heart. He can make it new. A worthy goal is to work toward becoming a virtuous woman, a rare jewel. Do not be discouraged if you are not all she is. Remember, she is the ideal and we want to become more like her. "Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised." (Proverbs 31:30) Serving Him, Kay Martin

Why Read Proverbs?

2009-10-01T15:58:00.000-05:00

Chapter one of Proverbs gives us several reasons for reading through the book of Proverbs. "For attaining wisdom and discipline; for understanding words of insight; for acquiring a disciplined and prudent life, doing what is right and just and fair; for giving prudence to the simple, knowledge and discretion to the young." (Verses 2-4) If you are trying to establish the practice of a daily Quiet Time, the book of Proverbs is a great place to start. Read the Proverb that corresponds with the day of the month and you will read the entire book in one month. This is a discipline I have completed a number of times through the years, and each time, different truths speak to me. We can gain wisdom, knowledge, and understanding through the pages of Proverbs. There are simple commands such as, "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding." (Proverbs 3:5) There are many, many informative statements such as, "For a man's ways are in full view of the LORD and He examines all his paths." (Proverbs 5:21) We also find many wise statements to help us live our lives more closely to God's desire for us such as, "A man of knowledge uses words with restraint and a man of understanding is even-tempered." (Proverbs 17:27) Blessings will be yours as you pour over the pages of Proverbs and you will gain wisdom.

2009-09-26T18:21:00.000-05:00

This picture was taken in West Point in December 2009. It was taken in Jean's new home and is just a cell-phone picture. That is Cathryn on the right, me in the middle and Jean on the left. Many of you in our Sunday School class have never met Jean so I thought you would enjoy seeing the third of the Barnes' sister.

This is our Daddy and one of our cousins (Rusty Whiteside). I just received this picture last week and I had never seen it before. Rusty found it and sent it to Jean. It is a nice memory.

Love Your Enemies

2009-09-24T12:20:00.000-05:00

We may ask ourselves, "How can I love my enemies?" Well, we can't but God can. "We love because He first loved us." In 1 John 4, verses 8 and 16, it states that "God is love." That is who He is. He loves us no matter what and we are in turn to love others in the same way. It truly is a supernatural thing to love our enemies. When people hurt us, slander us, say unkind things about us, they become unlovely people in our lives. Without God's supernatural love flowing through us, we do not have the resources to love the unlovely. Jesus gave us a command to love those less than likeable people in our lives. Luke 6:27-28 ". . . . love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you." Beth Moore stated that when we love someone who does not love us (our enemy or foe), we have the greatest opportunity to look like Christ. Do you want to look more like Christ? We can start by loving the unlovely people in our lives (a/k/a our enemies). Serving Him, Kay

A TIME TO BE STILL, A TIME TO MOVE ON

2009-09-14T09:08:00.000-05:00

When the Israelites were fleeing Egyptian bondage under the leadership of Moses (with God's direction), Moses said, "The LORD will fight for you; you need only to be still." (Exodus 14:14) There is a time to be still, to stop struggling in our own strength, let go and let God.

There is also a time to move on. when it was time to cross the Red Sea, God said to Moses, "Why are you crying out to Me? Tell the Israelites to move on." (Exodus 14:15) There is a time to be still and a time to move on.

Where are you today? Is God saying, "Be still" or is He telling you to move on? We must be sensitive and listen to Him. For some of us it is a time to be still, quit struggling. For others it is a time to move on. God is telling some to move on, leave something behind - a relationship, a job, a place of service, etc. We must listen and obey. Obedience brings peace.

Serving Him,

Kay

"Concerns"

2009-03-13T13:40:00.000-05:00

Some of you may have concerns about whether you will have a job next month. You may have concerns about your health or the health of a family member. Some of you are concerned about your teenager - will they make the right decisions, you wonder. There is apprehension about the economy and the direction our country seems to be taking. Are you weary and burdened with the difficulties of life? Anyone need a little rest from your concerns? God calls us to come to Him when life seems heavy - more than we can bear. "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." (Matthew 11:28-30) Whatever is weighing you down, the solution is the same - Jesus says, "Come to me . . . . . . . . and I will give you rest." We must make a conscious effort to let our worries go. We have to deliberately give all our concerns to Him and then trust Him to take care of our needs. Christ is gentle and humble in heart which is just the opposite of the worldly things we face. Most of us could use a good dose of gentleness and humbleness of heart about now. Prayer: "Lord, I come to You and ask You to help me lay my concerns, worries, and burdens at Your feet. Help me let go of all that is weighing me down and take Your yoke for it is easy and your burden is light." In Him, Kay Martin

Just beginning.

2009-03-06T11:12:00.000-06:00

Blogging is a new thing for me so, today, I am "just beginning." I plan to use this blog to post my weekly Sunday School class devotional that I pen each week. Just in case there are those who don't want to receive it, they will now have the option to log on to my blog and read it - or not.